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Broken Heart

I know what it’s like to love someone I’ll never have. It’s a horrible feeling. My heart aches and my soul is content when I hear his voice, see his face, smell his cologne. I want what I can’t have. I can’t have something that’s within reach. How do I get through my life knowing the one person I love isn’t mine and never will be….

Tue. May 13, 11:42am

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Oh boy, I have been there!

The only thing you can do is move on. Sometimes one needs to MOVE on -- I moved halfway across the United States. Limit your contact with this person for a few months, at least until you get it out of your system. Focus on your own accomplishments in other areas. Don't wallow in despair, distract yourself with constructive tasks.

You know what will happen? You will meet someone else. And that new person will seem even more wonderful. AND the feeling will be reciprocated! :-)

Tuesday, May 13, 2008, 11:51 AM

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Been there, oh man about 5 years ago.
When he left, I was devistated. I mean totally devistated. Honestly I don't know if I have ever hurt so bad in my adult life.
How do you get over it? I was forced into a separation. So it is a bit different situation.
All I can say is to try not to torture yourself by seeing him all the time or waiting for that look, touch, smell.......
And honestly for me I prayed for help.
He was not healthy for me and so he was removed.
Like I said devistating but in the end I am so much stronger and a better person than I am when he is around.

My heart goes out to you.
Keep reaching out to those who love you and care about you.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008, 4:37 PM

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Op checking in

thanks for your input. That must have been awful for you to go through. But it appears it was good for you to be done with him. That takes courage.

It just doesn't seem right to not be with the one person who gives you butterflies and makes every nerve calm at the same time. It's like a cruel joke life is playing on me.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008, 4:47 PM

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oh, oh more thing. It's not a phase or have him in my system. We've been friends for years and have felt this way since day one.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008, 4:49 PM

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Sometimes the butterflies and such come around because of the appeal that you CAN"T have him. Put your energy into someone you CAN have. I was one of those people who lived for the torture of it all, that it was better to pine away for someone I couldn't or didn't have rather than feel nothing for anyone at the moment.

I don't intend to be harsh, but move on. I know you can't get over someone just like that, but be sure not to wallow in your suffering either. Everyone looks better when you can't have them...............

Wednesday, May 14, 2008, 2:44 PM

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