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OT - I think I may have a crush on my therapist

I am incredibly uncomfortable with this and I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm in one of those lifetime movies. He's not my type, not cute but I find myself getting nervous to see him and now I have to admit it here: I'm hiding things because I don't want him to see the bad parts. I've been going for over 2 years and it's helped me more than anything else but now I think I have to stop. But I don't want to find anyone else because I feel comfortable with him. I'm very confused. Help me if you can.

Thu. May 22, 11:59am

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It is a natural attraction, this is someone who listens and supports you. I think you should talk to the therapist about this, he will help you sort out you feelings and why you are transfering them to him.

Thursday, May 22, 2008, 12:25 PM

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I would think it happens a lot. Here's a guy who listens to you, supports you, builds you up and doesn't give you crap about petty stuff. Everyone's dream boyfriend. It may be awkward, but you need to tell him because you're not helping yourself by keeping stuff from him

Thursday, May 22, 2008, 2:00 PM

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Definitely tell him. I'm sure he's dealt with a similar situation before.

Thursday, May 22, 2008, 3:02 PM

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I think you have more chance of needing to give him up if you don't say something to him about it. He's your therapist, if you had a crush on any other inappropriate person, or any crush you didn't want to act you - you'd talk to him about it. I can understand how it might feel awkward though - just compare it to all the other things you've said in the last 2 years and it might not seem so drastic. PRobably talking about it might even "difuse" it a little b/c sometimes these things are intriguing b/c they seem so fantastic!

Thursday, May 22, 2008, 5:08 PM

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I wouldn't tell him you are attracted to him. Tell him the other details you are hiding though. If he loves you he'll love all of you...

Thursday, May 22, 2008, 11:08 PM

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