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I am a young man of 30 yrs and I am attracted to older women I find them very sexy and more enticing. Is that normal behavior?

Fri. May 25, 10:39am

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Are you for real?

Friday, May 25, 2007, 10:40 AM

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how much older are the women that you are attracted to? 40's? 50's? 80's?

Friday, May 25, 2007, 11:10 AM

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I'm 40 and I think you're too old for me!


Friday, May 25, 2007, 12:05 PM

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Of course it's not weird. No more than it is weird for a younger woman to be attracted to an older man. A woman is sexy no matter what her age . . .go with it!

Friday, May 25, 2007, 12:53 PM

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my mom is 9 years older than my dad... that was unheard of 30 years ago, i say go for it!!!

Friday, May 25, 2007, 1:03 PM

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i am 34, and have a crush on a guy that's 27. unfortunately, i think the whole thing's too weird, like i'm some immature creepy lady that can't bag a guy her own age.

Friday, May 25, 2007, 1:28 PM

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My Mom was 14 years older than my Dad. She was one hot mamma in her day.

Friday, May 25, 2007, 3:01 PM

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My mother works in a high school, dresses very conservatively, and boys were giving themselves whiplash when she walked by right up until she was about 50.

So while social conditioning might push a man to value youth, human nature doesn't necessarily agree.

Friday, May 25, 2007, 3:24 PM

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Well said 3:24

Friday, May 25, 2007, 4:13 PM

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OP here, thanks for everyone's comments. I am for real I do find older women more attractive, older meaning over 35 to 45 range, though I have to say I do find some news anchors like Paula Zahn and Katie Couric attractive.

Friday, May 25, 2007, 4:25 PM

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This is _very_ common, OP, don't worry about it. My last bf (mid-30's) was always drooling after women in their late 40's and 50's -- I never thought that grey-haired ladies would be the focus of my insecurity, but it was the case!!

And for those of you who are sexy grey-haired ladies.... My ex-bf is really cute and a SUPER-nice guy. :-) A real prize for someone out there!

Friday, May 25, 2007, 5:05 PM

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Oh my god, I'm 37. Does this qualify me as a "cougar"??

Friday, May 25, 2007, 6:11 PM

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6:11- only if you wanna "pounce"!!! haha

Saturday, May 26, 2007, 12:59 AM

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I had a friend, she was 42 and she was trying to set her 17 yr old daughter up with this singer she met who was 21, he ended up falling hard for her. They are still together today, 16 years later.

I don't think age really matters if you connect and of course are both adults. I know some men and women much younger who are more grown up then some of my older friends. And every now and then I really believe I have met someone with an old soul.

Saturday, May 26, 2007, 3:16 AM

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I am 51 and married now but a couple years ago I dated a 37 year old attractive, athletic, successful man that I had known casually for a couple of years. I still think the world of him! Though I was lucky enough not to look really any older than him, when we would go out all sorts of twenty somethings would stop by our table to say "hi" to him or ask why he hadn't called lately! I wasn't jealous but I have to say that it became apparent that we lived (socially) in 2 different worlds. I had a lot of life experience (marriage, children, responsibility, etc.) that he didn't and he had remained in that single, party and play atmosphere for a very long time and that felt really weird!

Saturday, May 26, 2007, 11:54 AM

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Sept-may affair

I am in my late thirties but find younger men very attractive too.
I look younger than my age and I like younger men who are smarter as
I talk to them longer. I find that they learn from me and get inspired
at what aI have achieved so far...and I learn from them on how
they view life. The attraction is not bad either:)

Saturday, May 26, 2007, 2:15 PM

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