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Ummm, what am I supposed to think?

So, my husband was driving home one day and came to an intersection stop light. There is a restaurant with an outdoor seating area at this intersection. Apparently he saw his ex there and she saw him to.

The cool thing is that he told me right away when he got home. The not so cool thing is that he was awfully excited about the incident. He couldn't stop talking about it for about 20 minutes and even said, I want to drive back over there with you. This is a woman that he really didn't care for, they dated a long time ago, and she ended up cheating on him with several people.

Why the excitement to bump into her? I'm over the incident, but I'm curious what pt peeps would think of this.

Thu. Jun 14, 1:42pm

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You are propbably a hot chick and him wanting to take you back there with him is probably saying to her "nah nah nah look how happy I am and how beautiful my girlfriend is"

Thursday, June 14, 2007, 1:45 PM

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that's what i would think too-especially if this is an ex that hurt him or left him (rather than the other way around)-he probably wanted to gloat that he is in a happy relationship now! he wouldn't want to bring you there if he was interested in her, that's for sure!

Thursday, June 14, 2007, 1:48 PM

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OP Here

Thanks guys. I hadn't even thought of it that way. I know that if I saw my ex's I would run! Ha!

Thursday, June 14, 2007, 2:38 PM

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I totally agree. I think he wanted you to see how much better you are than her. He would never ever ever take you there if he was interested in her.

Thursday, June 14, 2007, 2:47 PM

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Yep, totally sounds like he wanted to show you (& his happiness) off!

Thursday, June 14, 2007, 2:52 PM

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