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Saw a someone on here that said they use to be swingers. Wondering if anyone out here is?
I know of a great couple who is into swinging and want to know some details about how they got into it. But don't want them to think we are ready for it.
I'm sure this subject will set off a lot of different views...I'm ready to hear them!

Thu. Aug 16, 2:28pm

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I would love to try it, but my hubby would divorce me for even saying that! I think your marriage needs to be open and trusting before you get into it. I think the divorce rate would be lower if people were more open with multiple partners.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 2:34 PM

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I, on the other hand, would completely leave my BF if he suggested it. But I know he never would, because he feels the same way. I am very territorial, and believe that a "swinger" relationship is not a relationship at all. I know some may disagree, but to me, it is like a friendship with benefits. Best friends, who don't mind if the other person sleeps with other people. I think that a true marriage, or relationship, revolves around the premise that you are with that person and that person only.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 2:42 PM

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Subsitute the word "wife" for your word "hubby" and you've got my opinion!

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 2:43 PM

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Just had a thought. If a woman was looking for a man to have sex with.... would his ahem "physical attribute" wink-wink play a part??

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 2:51 PM

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Oh, spot the ManPerv on the thread...

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 2:51 PM

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I am totally against it. I feel a marriage is meant for 2 people, not multiple partners. If you turely love your wife/husband why would you want to bring others into your "intimate" time? I just don't get it. Maybe I am just old-fashioned!

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 2:55 PM

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this is 2:34--funny isn't it. I don't consider it a sacrafice that I can't explore an option that is completely sexy in my opinion, but wish my hubby would be more open to trying other things than the norm. if you find a way to bring it up, let me know. i guess i am way more open minded than most women. hell, he gets mad if i suggest movies.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 3:38 PM

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This is 2:43 here. Sounds like you and I should get together! lol

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 3:43 PM

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i agree with 2:55- i don't want another man because i am in love with and totally satisified with mine. I have a lump in my stomach even thinking about sex with another man, let alone knowing my boyfriend was having sex with another woman.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 4:04 PM

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I think if i were in a relationship and i wasnt in love, it might not bother me that much, but if we made vows to love eachother, there is no way i could stomach watching my man with another woman. the evil green beast would be all over me. Especially if it looked like he was enjoying her more than me!

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 4:13 PM

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