||I'm a 40-something sardonic, pseudo-intellectual dual-citizen living in the UK and looking for friends to help me shed the 50+ lbs I've been desperately trying to lose for years. I like light hiking but am not terribly active. I've never been a fan of the whole gym culture. I love to read cookbooks, cook, talk about food, shop for food, etc. -- which is my downfall. No children. One overweight cat (naturally). One perfect and loving boyfriend, also slightly overweight (naturally).