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what body shape do guys find most attractive?

Hey guys,
what do you think is most attractive for a woman?
to have a toned body with definition, top heavy, bottom heavy,

Tue. Jan 24, 9:44am

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It all depends on the guy in question .... but most men I know like a bit of meat on the bones! My brother in law even swears by bigger women, his wife is about 30 pounds overweight and she doesn't mind one bit at all - he loves her just the way she is!!!!

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 10:00 AM

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being a guy i love a lil meat. i dont go for the nicole richie types i want some meat where u ask? i would say in the bottom area. but then again being a guy i want a woman w a nice butt and nice chest , but if i were to have a choice i would say butt

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 10:06 AM

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It's rare that I find a skinny girl attractive. Love curves and confidence.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 10:12 AM

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My husband told me he loves a women with curves and meat on her bones. He finds the skinny ones unattractive.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 11:33 AM

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My bf is of the feeling that any girl that lets him touch her is attractive...ok, not the most mature, but also sort of encouraging on a body-image front.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 11:55 AM

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My boyfriend likes girls who have low body fat (15% is what he seems to like best) but it doesn't matter how muscular or lean they are, though there's a point at which they can be too skinny. He doesn't mind a "meaty" girl as long as she isn't "fat".

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 11:58 AM

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body type

One question, why do we care? I understand that we like guys and want them to like us, but I don't care what they think is atractive. I care if they love me for me. I am not working out and getting in shape for any man or for the hope of a man, I am doing this for me!

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 12:35 PM

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Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 12:59 PM

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I think it's a fundamental human quality to care what someone you want to be with thinks of your appearance. I imagine that it would be impossible to not care what anyone thinks. Aesthetics are as appreciated as anything else.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 1:04 PM

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I'm not thin- trying to get back to just being curvy as opposed to "well padded"- but I've recently been turned down because my butt is too little- the hottie likes girls with ALOT of junk in the trunk. Ironically he would have liked me more before I lost the 30 lbs- but no, he's not worth the added weight.

My boy toy on the other hand never once noticed or commented on the 30lbs I lost til I was at his place in blue jeans and bent over to put on my boots. I was like- you see me naked, but notice once I'm in blue jeans??? (which means I managed to pick him up when I was a sz 16) Most guys won't notice a 10lb dif in their women, unless their really shallow. Confidence will easily get you past an extra 20-30, possibly even 40lbs. And then there are guys out there who like the stick figure women... it's all a matter of preference. The guys who are worth it, will prefer the person you are to the wieght you are, and judge you by you personality, not your dress size.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 1:09 PM

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