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My husband ignores and avoids me

I started dating my husband a month after my 20th birthday. I'm 35 and we're still together. After the birth of my first daughter, who is now 3.5 and ESPECIALLY during the pregnancy of my second daughter who is now 2, he has totally ignored me. We used to go everywhere together. Now he leaves me at home and continues with his life as if he doesn't have children or a family. He's not going to bars. But he is staying late at work to surf the net, chat online, whatever, just so when he does get home we're all in bed. He plays sports all of the time: every Friday night, every Sunday morning. When he's not playing, he's watching. He leaves in the morning and doesn't come home until between 10 p.m. and 1 a.m. After both babies I needed to lose about 10 -15 pounds. But I'm telling you, this is really depressing, distressing - you name it - and now I'm up to needing to lose about 20 pounds and it's not getting better. Now tomorrow is Halloween. It's going to be beautiful here. And he won't give up volleyball (this is friendly match with old people) to go trick or treating with his children. Last year he said he forgot and left to go do something else. The girls showed up alll dressed up and excited to show daddy and of course... no daddy. It happens all of the time. I do EVERYTHING alone. What the hell is going on? Of course I've tried talking to him. What should I do?

Thu. Oct 30, 7:13pm

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Have you ever asked him to go into marriage therapy together?

Sounds like he still hasn't accepted the fact that he's a father, and that could be tied up with some sort of resentment towards you.

I hope you at least seek some counseling for yourself if he doesn't agree to it. It could help you get some perspective that doesn't involve blaming yourself when you shouldn't be.

Thursday, October 30, 2008, 7:29 PM

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Is it possible that he's going through some sort of mid-life crisis? Seems like you guys got married young so maybe he's having some sort of identity crisis? I know you said you tried to talk to him about it but you didn't mention what happens when you try to talk to him about it. Is he dismissive? Shut down? Argumentative? Defensive?

Maybe you guys can go to counseling? Or maybe he would be open to a weekly date night where you guys could reconnect and possibly talk openly with each other without the kids?

Thursday, October 30, 2008, 7:35 PM

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I'm not sure what to say I do not feel I am one to offer some advice that may steer you in the wrong direction because my heart broke reading your story and I am angry and sad for you,so I will just remember you in my prayers tonight and hope that someone here has good sound advice. Hang in there, your girls are so lucky to have you!

Thursday, October 30, 2008, 8:00 PM

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Don't worry...this is very typical of men. Very common are his actions. Just smack him in the head once in awhile and you'll be good to go!

Seriously. ;)

Thursday, October 30, 2008, 8:00 PM

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I'm sorry. That sucks.

This is not typical of men. He is seriously and completely checked out. If he wont' go with you, I would seek professional help on your own. It could be the best thing you do for yourself right now.

In the meantime, do you have anyone you can call upon to babysit so you can get out and exercise, go for a walk, anything that's just for you? What would happen if you just told your husband that at 6pm (or whenever he is for sure off work) you need him home b/c you're going to go workout?



Thursday, October 30, 2008, 9:36 PM

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When I try to talk to him about it he is dismissive and brushes me off. I got him to go out on Valentines day and he was a bitch about it the entire time. That was the last time we were together alone. So I've learned not to make him be a good person, this is something he has to do on his own. Do you think it's possible that he figures he can treat me anyway he wants and I'm not going to go anywhere? Afterall, we've been together for a long time. Dated forever, have been married 8. I've thought about moving out to wake him up, but I think this is a fantasy: I don't think it would wake him up, I think he might be happy. Been then, I think maybe this is a fear. To be honest, if I didn't have the girls, and if it was truly horrible, I would have been out of the door by now. But it's just an everyday heartache. And I wonder.. will anyone really benefit with my moving out?

Thursday, October 30, 2008, 10:42 PM

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Thank you

Thank you to all of you. You have no idea how much I appreciate your words and kindness.

Thursday, October 30, 2008, 10:45 PM

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why not - could you possibly be more alone than you are with him?

I don't mean to sound harsh there, but he sounds so checked out and unavailable, that what is his value except as a paycheck? He's not a father, he's not a husband, and he's barely a roomate based on what you describe.

It is entirely possible to be more lonely in a room full of people than by yourself, even more so when one of them vowed to love, cherish and protect you for the rest of your lives. Some of the lonliest moments in my life were in the company of my ex.

You are in my thoughts this evening and I am sending good wishes you way that all will work out for the best in the end whatever may happen.

Thursday, October 30, 2008, 11:32 PM

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OP - if this is what you're going to get and nothing more, then everyone is absolutely better off if you were to leave. You do your girls no favors by staying with a man who doesn't give you or them the time of day. Like the pp said - he is checked out in every way.

Moving out doesn't have to be the first step. If you can afford it, I would still seek out professional help and invite him along, but still go even if he doesn't. This will help you sort everything out and empower any decision you make so you can continually move forward in the best interests for everyone involved.

You're in my thoughts.



Friday, October 31, 2008, 8:22 AM

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Demand his attention...you may be being too nice.

Have a heartfelt talk with him...scream, cry, throw a motherf*&%!n tantrum...get his attention so that he knows that you STILL exist.

Otherwise...if this doesn't work....kick his tush to the curb!

Friday, October 31, 2008, 8:33 AM

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OP, you told us the following:

"To be honest, if I didn't have the girls, and if it was truly horrible, I would have been out of the door by now."

Does he know this?

Friday, October 31, 2008, 8:36 AM

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I've told him that if I was unable to have children, that yes, I would have left him. We actually had to try really hard to have children and he seemed to want them so badly..? He is not horrible. When the little one was sick last winter she threw up 15 times in one night. 15 times. And Jon was with me every step of the way. It's the day to day ignoring and avoiding that I'm having a hard time getting over. Even his family, who thinks he can do no wrong, has questioned me about it - although they will spin anything to make it my fault....But, I'm going to take your advice, and seek counseling. I'm also going to look into what it would take to move out, go look at apartments, etc. I talked to a lawyer once when it got really bad (yes, it's been worse) and I'm in no jeopardy of losing the girls. I'll be happy to be employed again. When we got married I was supporting him. Now he's doing really well and I'm able to stay home with the girls, and I hear about how easy I have it ALL OF THE TIME. To be honest, this is the most I've talked about this to anyone, and this is the best feedback I have ever received. Thank you.

Friday, October 31, 2008, 9:57 AM

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OK please know that I am not saying this to be hurtful and I definitely don't know your full situation, but I'm going to ask: do you think he may be cheating on you? It sounds identical to what I went through (and yes, I know, no two situations are the same). My (ex) husband and I were the "perfect couple", did stuff together, etc. Then I got pregnant and all of a sudden there were late work meetings, booze on his breath when he came home, rushing off on the weekends to do activities alone that we used to do together. He was totally checked out. I learned a few months after the birth that he was having an affair. It was a horrible situation that I didn't see coming because it never occurred to me that he would ever cheat on me. It's worth looking into, and asking him isn't enough because I asked mine and of course, he said there wasn't anyone else. Well, he still doesn't admit it despite the fact that he's now married to the "no one else".

At the very least you guys need couples counseling, and if he won't go, that's a red flag. You can go for yourself to decide if this is the situation you want to live in (and you want your children to live in) for the rest of your life.



Friday, October 31, 2008, 10:06 AM

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I am so sorry you are going through this and I agree with all the PP. If things are going to work out I think you need to get counseling together. If he isn't invested in the relationship anymore I think you need to take care of you. Even if that means moving out and ending your marriage. As difficult as that may be you deserve to be happy!
I have only been married for 2 years but my husband and I have been together for a long time and I really believe that communication is KEY to keeping a relationship going. If you can open up the lines of communication - no matter how bad the conversation goes at least you will be making progress.
Good luck and please keep us updated!
rachspen

Friday, October 31, 2008, 12:14 PM

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Be strong, OP! I'm just glad you realize (and before years and years pass) that everyone deserves better!

Friday, October 31, 2008, 12:45 PM

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To 8:00 p.m.
This is NOT typical of men. Any real man would never treat his wife and children like this. It's lame that a person would let a man off the hook because "that's the way they are". That's a cop out. Men (and women by the way) can be decent or they can be a8holes. They make the choice...it's not like it's genetic. My husband has far too much respect for me and our family to ever think that would be ok.

Friday, October 31, 2008, 2:27 PM

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<<....But, I'm going to take your advice, and seek counseling. I'm also going to look into what it would take to move out, go look at apartments, etc. I talked to a lawyer once when it got really bad...>>

Yes, these actions seem warranted and healthy. Best of luck. Our hearts are with you.



Friday, October 31, 2008, 3:28 PM

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NOT TYPICAL

This is disrespectful to you and your children. Therapy for CERTAIN- if he won't go.. you go and if you get better and decide to leave, more power to you!!

Sometimes I wish the women who want to leave their husbands live around me- I honestly would be more than willing to help!!!!

Friday, October 31, 2008, 3:40 PM

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You said that you used to spend all your time together before kids came along. Did he want children? Did you have to convince him to start a family? Did he want to wait to have children?
It just seems that the kids were the trigger for his behaviour.

Friday, October 31, 2008, 5:09 PM

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I am curious and a bit concerned. What is it he is providing for you? I am also concerned that you are already taking the world upon your shoulders as well as his.

It sounds like he is emotionally unavailable and disrespectful. For your sake seek help. I am curious how your children are doing without their father. Maybe they should also talk with a counselor. You may learn things you never knew, nor them for that matter.

I think looking for apartments for yourself is good, but since he has emotionally and physically checked out have you considered giving him that burden instead? Just a suggestion.

Saturday, November 01, 2008, 9:07 AM

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Excellent point PP. Have his packed bags waiting for him on the edge of the driveway when you're ready. Why should your children have to be uprooted? If you decided to go, they should maintain their structure and routine as much as possible. It will be a whole lot easier for him to move his one little person than you, the kids, their toys, etc.

Monday, November 03, 2008, 9:43 AM

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honey, i've been there and am still there.

MOVE ON! Move on your life without him. I'm not saying get divorced or move out or kick him out. Stay living as you are, but quit waiting for him. You're waiting for someone that doesn't want what it's in life. Be with your children and ignore him. Hang out with the families the kids' know, hang out with girlfriends, get a babysitter once or twice a week and start your own volleyball team. If he doesn't want to spend his free time with you, don't wait for him. You'll end up being disappointed.

fab.

Monday, November 03, 2008, 12:44 PM

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pp- If she is going to be living her life without him and moving on, why not put herself in a situation where she could live with someone who wants to be with her? I would contemplate getting a divorce. In the end you will probably be happier. There is someone out there who will make her feel like she is the only person in the world!!!

Monday, November 03, 2008, 2:51 PM

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I've been there. I don't think divorce is the answer for everything, nor do I think counciling is the answer to fix all. There's a reason he is not paying attention to her and their children. She can assume anything she wants and throw in the towel, but it doesn't sound like she's ready to do that.

By moving on with her life and not waiting for him, she'll discover new things about herself and he may or may not realize she's moved on. Then she has a decision to make whether to stay or not stay. If he realizes she doesn't need him or depend on him, he might feel left out and come around--this is what happened to my husband. On the other hand, he might not care. But then she'll know he doesn't care at all and she can credit herself with knowing she honestly tried everything. Not to mention with the new found support group she has in her corner, it will make it easier for her and her children. Let's not forget about them.

There sure is someone out there who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated, but I think you have to work at marriage and she shouldn't throw in the towel just yet.

Monday, November 03, 2008, 4:36 PM

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2:51 here again
If I had put up with that for approximately 3.5 years, I don't know if I would be able to take another day! I know divorce is not always the answer, but i don't necessarily think hanging in for the kids is either (I can only assume that is why she is still there, despite his avoidance of them as well). Sometimes you need to be "selfish" and do what is best for you. This OP is not happy in her marriage and I can only assume it maked being a mom harder as well. I wish her the best! I will keep her and her kids in my thoughts (and prayers).

Monday, November 03, 2008, 5:34 PM

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give it one more try

Be super sweet and attentive and do it from the heart. Do this for one year. Decide it might be the last year you are together and make his life absolutely wonderful for that last year. Don't breathe a word of negativity. Do the little things and call it an exercise in compassion. Do little things for yourself too. If he isn't there for you on your birthday, for example, be there for yourself. Maybe you'll find a balance you can live with that makes you happy. Next year, see how your quality of life is and then decide to stay or leave.

Monday, November 03, 2008, 6:06 PM

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You need to talk to him and MAKE him listen. The way he is treating you is unacceptable, and it needs to change if you're going to continue to make the marriage work. Maybe even prepare yourself with a list of the things he has done that are hurtful, give him exact dates if you need to, so he knows you're not imagining it. Tell him how it makes you feel, and don't let him be dismissive of you. Tell him in no uncertain terms that if it wasn't for your daughters, his behaviour would have caused you to leave him by now. If he sees how hurtful his actions are and still refuses to change, then maybe you need to think about whether the marriage is worth saving.
It sounds like he's not a bad guy, he's just going through some stuff. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope it all works out for you.

Tuesday, November 04, 2008, 10:20 AM

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I don't believe you can MAKE anyone do anything. Change your ways, your attitude, the way you spend your time. He might follow..
fab

Tuesday, November 04, 2008, 11:49 AM

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Do you think maybe he is acting this way to get you to make the first move on splitting up. Maybe he doesn't have the nerve to do it, so he has decided to treat you like crap so you will be the "bad guy" in this. When you tell him you want to leave does he say he wants to work this out. Just ask him if he is in this for the long haul or not. If not, then you have your answer.

Tuesday, November 04, 2008, 7:32 PM

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I agree 7:32
I wonder if he is a Leo???

Tuesday, November 04, 2008, 7:39 PM

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I have posted on this thread before, and I guess I just don't understand why most who have responded are suggesting that she be passive about this, and give him more time. She should not let him hurt her for one more day, nor allow him to continue to hurt the children (and I am sure they are hurting). I agree with 7:32 that she needs to ask him, point blank, if he wants to be with her. She just needs to be ready for whatever answer he may give.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008, 10:09 AM

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I agree. Is being super nice to him for a year really the way to handle this? Clearly he's been up to this nonsense for awhile, so a year seems excessive. I might, maybe, give it a go for 2 weeks, but that's it. I've been through a divorce with children and it's horrible and I wouldn't wish it on anyone, so I know where people are coming from in one way because who wants to go through that? But again, you have one life for you and your kids, and it shouldn't be wasted on someone who doesn't care. Divorce is a personal decision but it's looking like it's going that way to me.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008, 10:49 AM

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How is his work going? Is there a risk of him losing his job or getting a cut in pay? Can you get him to a dr to check him out for health issues? Men can become withdrawn (and possibly suicidal) if any of these things are bothering him.

If these check out and /or he refuses to go to a dr and refuses to go to counseling with you, then there is not much more that you can do. You may resolve to be a single parent with him providing income and stay with him or be a single parent and part company. It is not an easy choice for you.
I stayed together for 20 years because I had 5 children and one was ADHD with several other issues and knew that I would not be able to properly take care of everyone if I was also working outside the home. I was miserable because I thought we were suppose to be partners, but now I am so much happier on my own. I found it to be better to be alone and know I am facing issues alone then to be together with someone and feel incredibly lonely.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008, 7:06 PM

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I'm curious as to what the OP has decided to do. Please update us!

Friday, November 07, 2008, 12:11 PM

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OP! Remember... respect is JUST A MINIMUM!

Friday, November 07, 2008, 4:53 PM

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A male voice here.

If he's not there for her, emotionally or phyically, or for the girls; if he dismisses her professed feelings out of hand; if he refuses to go seek counseling to discover why he is no longer the loving, caring, respecting husband he promised to be long ago; if he is, quite simply, not giving her any support (beyond money), love, intimacy, understanding, or, god forbid, even a modicum of daily happiness; then he has already jmoved on (to where, none of us know, maybe not even him) and she must then as well, for the girls' sake as well as her own (and maybe for his as well).

You need a forceful confrontation, insisting that you are being neglected, that you feel ingored and disrespected, that you are miserable and he is doing nothing to help you and thus isn't showing you the love he vowed (cherishing volleyball more than you or your girls). You must insist that he acknowledge your feelings are real and that if he does nothing to even _try_ to make you happier, if he won't make any adjustments in his life to make your life just a little better, if he won't communicate everyhtign in side him as all couples need to do; if he won't even bother trying counseling with you to find out what has gone wrong, then that' sit. You then demand a divorce. Period.

There is no middle ground. Either he acknowledges that his actions or lack therof make you miserable, or he doesn't. If he doesn't, then he is no partner. If he's no partner, then you dissolve the partnership that not logner exists. It IS as simple as that.

And it's not about deciding between feeling lonely wiht a husband or being on your own. At 44, everyone I date is divorced with kids. Tehre are good men out there like me who will do everything they can to cherish the woman (and her kids) he decides to settle with, for the next 60 years. You'll only be alone for as long as you need to confront the fact that your marriage ended and you move past that. Then, you new adventure begins.

Saturday, November 08, 2008, 6:39 PM

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Damn PT.

PP here--I forgot to add my userid as I usually do in the forums.

-vitamind

Saturday, November 08, 2008, 6:41 PM

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....

My husband sounds so much like yours. We've been together for eight years now. We just recently married and our relationship seems to be falling apart. He spends absolutely no time with me or our kids. When I try to talk to him, he seems annoyed or uninterested. Or there are times that he flat out ignores me, starts a fight or tells me to go away. it's not like I'm constantly bugging him. I'd just like to have a conversation with him once in awhile. When I try to tell him that I'm unhappy, he tells me to just deal with it or get the f*** out. Or he'll make fun of me when I start to cry and say that he knows I'm not going anywhere because we've had this conversation before. I've thought about leaving, but financially it's not an option right now.... Plus, I love him and tell myself that I need to just get through this...but this isn't a healthy relationship. It's really depressing. He can be an amazing person and then turn around and be so insensitive.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009, 2:25 PM

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I think you shouldn't leave him as yet. First get yourself stable. Brush up in some courses or even get yourself a certification or college degree. Have him baby sit sometimes while you got to school or work. Find yourself a good|great job, have him babysit while you get yours. Get used to living independently while you are together so that when the time come you can leave with your head up and with no fair. You need to find yoursefl first before you make your stratigic move to move on. Use him as much as posibble (because I think he did that to you). You supported him at one point and helped him get on his feet. Now it's time for you to claim yours. Please don't leave or get an appartment until you get establish with a degree, job andfinancially|mentally stable. Plan this. Give yourself a good 5 years. During these 5 years, your kids will have their parents, you will be working on your success and then when everything is in place "say good by". I really feel for you and I believe in trying to make things work. But only you kow how unhappy you are and how much you can pysically and mentally take this abuse. Plan, plan and plan. Don't make deppression take over and plan for you. You take control of your depression and plan your future life. Who knows, maybe during these five years while you find yourself he may also discover the true beauty in you and things may take unexpected tunrs. You may not only get a carrier, degree, job, or find yourself but during this journy your marriage may be nourished and you both may discover the true love you never new you had inside for eachother.

Monday, March 02, 2009, 8:26 PM

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I left my spouse for 5 weeks and felt I would hate him forever and move forward. After 4 wks of feeling like that, I started to miss him, and the good times, though the bad were there too. I was so strong for 4 wks, then became a mess of tears. We both decided to start anew and see if it could be good again, and it has been several months now of absolutely NO arguing, or ignoring one another. Give yourself some time to grieve the relationship.....but stay in your house, just distance yourself , and stay busy with other things. Find a passion, hobby, journalling, support group with babysitting service, Pamper yourself, go out with friends, or just with your kids. When you change your behavior and take care of YOU , he will be thrown off guard. When you care less about where is going, he may see the error of his ways. You and those kids are #1....if he refuses to see it, other men WILL notice it. Have coffee at a playground, and chat with others, make new friends, swap babysitting services with other moms to get some YOU time. Dance and exercise at home with the kids. Men can be selfish, they have to be taught otherwise. Some men do resent the responsibilities of parenting. Some are workaholics and good providers, but selfish about sharing themselves. I would be sickly sweet to him for maybe a couple of months to see his reaction, but not give him another whole year. NO arguing, just take care of YOU as if you were on your own....practice up....it can be fun. Do your hair, nails, makeup, dress up, and take the kids out. He may feel you distancing and realize he does not like that. After a couple of months of being very nice to him, but even nicer to yourself, then it is time to ask him to leave, so you can find some happiness. God Bless.

Tuesday, March 03, 2009, 3:11 AM

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I have been married for 20 years and we have had our ups and downs. My husband was disabled about 4 years ago. He became unbearable. Truly unbearable. I moved out, got an apartment, took the kids. Check on him twice a day for his health, made sure he was taking his meds. (okay, I know a bunch of you just thought I left my veggie husband alone but he is not that disabled) I told him if he wanted to work things out I was open to that but he needed counseling to deal with his depression and how he was going to live the rest of his new life. I was not okay with being treating badly and I was def. not okay with him treating our kids badly. I stayed gone the whole 6 months I signed a lease for. He got into therapy and so did I. I have now moved back home and things are great. Never in a million years did he ever think I would stand up for myself and move out. It was a shocker for him and one he needed.

To the OP: We would love a follow-up! Are you still on PT? What did you end up doing??



Tuesday, March 03, 2009, 10:18 AM

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HE is cheating. Dump his ass and get a good lawyer. I hope you have a job.

Tuesday, March 03, 2009, 5:29 PM

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I'm no psychologist or counselor, but I do think that we make men out to be a lot more complicated than they really are. Think about how you hooked this guy in the first place. What did you act like when you were "his girlfriend"? Be his girlfriend again. Meet him at the door when he comes hom with some sexy lingerie on, make his favorite meals, find something good about him and compliment him. He won't know what hit him, but I bet you will see a change in about a week --- if not less.

This sounds incredibly submissive, I know - and please don't get all feminist on me, ladies. I'm not saying that we should be slaves to men. What I'm saying is that we have the power as the women in the relationship, because men basically are happy if they are getting plenty of action and if they eat well. If there is something that I really want done around the house, I make sure to be extra attentive to my husband (you know what I mean), and I swear that I never even have to ask about that chore around the house that I really want done. It just gets done....and then he also follows by surprising me by doing the laundry, the dishes, etc. Man...talk about the power that we have as women.

Just try it....if it doesn't work, then my take is that there is probably something amiss with the man.

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Sunday, December 23, 2012, 2:26 AM

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I am so sorry for your struggle, I understand this pain very well. His behavior is communicating very clearly to you...what does it say to you? My advice to you would be to sit down with him however you can arrange it and speak candidly to him about it BUT, do not get emotional...speak in a business tone, controlled and firm. In order to get through the emotion of it all, write it all down in a journal--your hurt, your fear, your anger everything. The journal purge may take a few weeks but it will help you maintain control when you speak to him. What he says may be painful to hear, but I think you know the truth of the matter already. If he is unwilling to change his ways, you can't force him or demand anything of him. Before you do anything rashly, consider your exit if you believe that is what ultimately will be best for you and your girls. Begin saving money in any way you can. There are always options out there, life is to short to be with someone who doesn't love you and wanna be with you.

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This was my thread

This thread caught my eye because I wrote it in 2008. It broke my heart reading it again! I will have to say that the best advice I could have gotten was from this thread. i was really alone then.

I did seek a lawyer. I did contemplate moving out and found nice affordable place (my current home is difficult to maintain. I love it but couldn't stay in it alone.) But in the end I took this advice, which I copied and pasted below.

(honey, i've been there and am still there.

MOVE ON! Move on your life without him. I'm not saying get divorced or move out or kick him out. Stay living as you are, but quit waiting for him. You're waiting for someone that doesn't want what it's in life. Be with your children and ignore him. Hang out with the families the kids' know, hang out with girlfriends, get a babysitter once or twice a week and start your own volleyball team. If he doesn't want to spend his free time with you, don't wait for him. You'll end up being disappointed.

fab.

Monday, November 03, 2008, 12:44 PM)

There is still a hole in my heart from those years. But in the end, I just decided to pretend that he was dead, and arrange my days from there. What tiny bit of attention the girls got from their dad, they loved. If I left him, it would have been a custody battle from hell. If he didn't want to spend one minute with them while I was married to him, then he wasn't going to get one minute with them divorced. I figured if I stayed, the girls would be all mine. And they were.

It all got better. A lot better. Sooooooo much better. I can't even tell you how much better. I have my husband back, awake and involved in our lives. My girls are happy. Life is good. Really good. I can't believe I went through all of that. To this day, I don't know what his problem was...


Tuesday, January 15, 2013, 10:57 AM

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I am SO glad it all worked out. I love this website and that we can all help each other here. Thank you for sharing and for being open to the advice here.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013, 4:59 PM

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I am here to testify to the good work of the Dr.Osaze



My name is sharon smith, I am here to testify to the good work of the Dr.Osaze. 2 years ago,

my husband left home, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails, no sign of

him anywhere. my daughter got sick with multiple sclerosis, things were so tough for me. I

had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i paid over $6800 and

still nothing happened, i lost hope completely, my daughter's situation got worse each

day.last month, i saw a posting concerning the good works of the wole professionals, i gave

them a try...i paid about $728, for all three spells (Bring Lover back, Healing spell and

Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was sorry and that

he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back, three

days later, i got a new job with an Oil company, right now, my daughter's condition is

getting better each day and i trust she would be well in a matter of days.I want to thank

SPIRITUAL LOVE TEMPLE you can contact them via email:(spirituallove@hotmail.com) for their

efforts and for bringing my life back to normal and so close to perfection.My name is sharon

smith, i live in Canada.PLEASE HELP ME THANK THEM


Sunday, February 24, 2013, 11:06 AM

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real spell

Thanks once again the great Dr samura I am rose nee I want to share my testimony to every one here about what this great man did for me I was married for more than six years now know child with this, my heart has been trouble so I don’t know what to do. And I have gone from one place to another still I did not found the solution of my problem on till one day in my office when a friend of mine came for a visit so I have been hiding this for every body not to share this problem to any one so when I see the situation on ground now my husband is about getting another woman, I try my best to share this with a friend so she advise me to contact this great man for a spell cast so I was not my self of telling her my problem so I ask her what we it take me? She said it we not take much time just three days it we be done then I look up and down were we I start from now? She insist for me to try him the I ask her for his contact she gave me his number and his email address his number +2347030410643 and here is the email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@GMAIL.COM so I called him first before I email him to know if his the write person so he cast the spell and am so happy with my husband with two kids with this, the man is great and his spell casting is real thanks to my friend may God almighty bless you all from rose nee

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Wednesday, March 06, 2013, 8:06 PM

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Thanks once again the great Dr samura I am rose nee I want to share my testimony to every one here about what this great man did for me I was married for more than six years now know child with this, my heart has been trouble so I don’t know what to do. And I have gone from one place to another still I did not found the solution of my problem on till one day in my office when a friend of mine came for a visit so I have been hiding this for every body not to share this problem to any one so when I see the situation on ground now my husband is about getting another woman, I try my best to share this with a friend so she advise me to contact this great man for a spell cast so I was not my self of telling her my problem so I ask her what we it take me? She said it we not take much time just three days it we be done then I look up and down were we I start from now? She insist for me to try him the I ask her for his contact she gave me his number and his email address his number +2347030410643 and here is the email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@GMAIL.COM so I called him first before I email him to know if his the write person so he cast the spell and am so happy with my husband with two kids with this, the man is great and his spell casting is real thanks to my friend may God almighty bless you all from rose nee

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Wednesday, March 06, 2013, 8:37 PM

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Thanks once again the great Dr samura I am rose nee I want to share my testimony to every one here about what this great man did for me I was married for more than six years now know child with this, my heart has been trouble so I don’t know what to do. And I have gone from one place to another still I did not found the solution of my problem on till one day in my office when a friend of mine came for a visit so I have been hiding this for every body not to share this problem to any one so when I see the situation on ground now my husband is about getting another woman, I try my best to share this with a friend so she advise me to contact this great man for a spell cast so I was not my self of telling her my problem so I ask her what we it take me? She said it we not take much time just three days it we be done then I look up and down were we I start from now? She insist for me to try him the I ask her for his contact she gave me his number and his email address his number +2347030410643 and here is the email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@GMAIL.COM so I called him first before I email him to know if his the write person so he cast the spell and am so happy with my husband with two kids with this, the man is great and his spell casting is real thanks to my friend may God almighty bless you all from rose nee

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Wednesday, March 06, 2013, 8:38 PM

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real spell,
Thanks again for adding comic relief to my day.

What a crock!

Wednesday, March 06, 2013, 9:26 PM

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HOW GOT MY WIFE BACK

Imagine for a minute you are so in love with this one girl and you believed that she was also in love, she said yes to your proposer and on your wedding day you catch her having sex with your best friend and still she tells you to your face that she never loved you, and then file for a divorce then move in with your suppose to be best friend.This is all that happen to me.It seem like a story but believe this is my life story.My name is Charle William i am a paramedic and live in Dublin, Ireland.My marriage ought to be the best and i ought to be the proudest man that day but Kelly Cater made a fool out of me.I never thought she would even think of cheating on me on my wedding day with the man i consider to be my best friend.It all happened during our wedding reception.I caught them in the bathroom i would say how but it too embarrassing for me to speak about.I was so mad that i punched the crap out of him but she kept screaming over and over again live him i love him please don't kill him.Hearing those word was like a knife piercing through my heart i was like you married to me and you tell me that you love him.As i could recall it was our wedding day how can this be happen.She call off the wedding party herself telling ever one that the marriage was over.I was broken not knowing what to do about it.She didn't stop seeing him,i could not imagine the girl who was so excited about getting married could just walk out of one like that without thinking twice about it and to make things worse she hooked up with my best friend.All this was all i could think of but still, i was madly in love with a girl who cheated on me with my best friend.I had scarified too much to let go, i was not going to let Joe that is my suppose to be best friend to make a fool out of me.She refused to have contact with me i don't know why and that made my plan even harder.I thought the internet would be of great help i tried all ways to get her back still it wasn't yielding any result.Non made her to what to have contact with me.I stumbled on an article on how to make your ex fall in love with again using a spell.At first i was that is so impossible but still something inside made me to contact a spell caster BOLOGO. I wasn't sure what i was doing, i just thought i should do something.I made it clear what i wanted him to do for me.He asked me to get some material which i got but could not get them over to him.I had to send him the money to get the materials.He told me he was going to send me some enchanting word that those enchantment will control her emotion and make she fall in love with me all over again.All what he told me will happen fell into place just as he said.I had the love of my life back in my hands and there was nothing Joe could do but to back off cos it was clear that she wanting nothing to do with him. BOLOGO is that one spell caster you can give your thrust to.Need to contact him use chiefpriestofogunshrine@gmail.com

Saturday, March 16, 2013, 9:38 PM

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a spell caster that help me bring my ex back

i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 6 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 3 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted templeofgreatspell@yahoo.com for the return of my husband to me,he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 3days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr Okoase casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Okoase for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back thier husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact Dr Okoase on his email address via: templeofgreatspell@yahoo.com . and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.
ANGELA BRUSE

Friday, April 05, 2013, 7:23 PM

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I am here to testify to the good work of the Dr.Osaze


I have been in bondage ever since my ex leave

for another woman, It was really hell for me

and everybody told me to forget about him but i

could not because i love him so much, Things

get worse until my friend Rose introduced me to

this great spell caster Prophet osaz and i

contacted him through his email

spirituallove@hotmail.com

i explain everything to him and he cast a spell

for me immediately after three days, everything

turn around and James come to me on his knee

begging for forgiveness that i am the one and

only woman in his life now. i was surprise i

have never seen such a miracle in my life. I am

so thankful to this man and i will forever

publish his name spirituallove@hotmail.com


Friday, April 19, 2013, 9:36 AM

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How i reunited with my ex husband

My Name is Mrs Angela, I was married to my husband for 8years and we were both blessed with three children, living together as one love, until 2013 when things was no longer the way it was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he started sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave him the job. since that day, when i called him, he no longer pick up my calls and nothing good seems to come out from him. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the new girl friend till Dr. Orinoko cast a spell for me, now he is back with me and me only. And i am happy with my family if you need his help contact on via email, orinokosolutiontemple1@gmail.com

Sunday, April 28, 2013, 12:26 AM

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I was married to my husband for 8years and we were both blessed with three children


My Name is Mrs Angela, I was married to my husband for 8years and we were both blessed with three children, living together as one love, until 2013 when things was no longer the way it was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he started sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave him the job. since that day, when i called him, he no longer pick up my calls and nothing good seems to come out from him. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the new girl friend till Dr. Orinoko cast a spell for me, now he is back with me and me only. And i am happy with my family if you need his help contact on via email, orinokosolutiontemple1@gmail.com



Sunday, April 28, 2013, 12:30 AM

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A great spell caster that brought my ex lover back


A great spell caster that brought my ex lover back

My Name is Marry, From United Kingdom. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called chukudi has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called MICHEAL we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email(spellsolution08@gmail.com)then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great chukudi for what you have done for me.Contact him on his private email spellsolution08@gmail.com if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below:

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money


Sunday, September 08, 2013, 11:28 AM

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A great spell caster that brought my ex lover back

My Name is Marry, From United Kingdom. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called chukudi has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called MICHEAL we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email(spellsolution08@gmail.com)then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great chukudi for what you have done for me.Contact him on his private email spellsolution08@gmail.com if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below:

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money


Sunday, September 08, 2013, 11:28 AM

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how i get my ex back

my ex-boyfriend dumped me 5 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the internet for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster (Dr Camara) help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster (Dr Camara) and explain my problems to him….. he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my boyfriend came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you for helping me to get my love back and your love spell is truely perfect, you are truly talented and gifted i will continue to publish your name on the net because of the good work you are doing.If you need his help contact him now through his email: camaralovespell@live.com .He also specialize on all kind of spell such as:

1 LOVE SPELL
2 WIN EX BACK
3 FRUIT OF THE WOMB
4 PROMOTION SPELL
5 PROTECTION SPELL
6 BUSINESS SPELL
7 GOOD JOB SPELL
8 LOTTERY SPELL

YOU CAN CONTACT HIM NOW AND GET YOUR PROBLEM SOLVED email: camaralovespell@live.com


Wednesday, September 11, 2013, 10:48 AM

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GREAT SPELL CASTER DR. SAKURA

GREAT SPELL CASTER( DR. SAKURA ) THAT HELP ME RESTORE BACK MY MARRIAGE.
What a wonderful spell caster that has brought back happiness to my life, I got married to Paul and we loved and cherish ourselves so much but he just woke up one morning saying he needs a divorce I was so damn surprise to hear that statement from Paul the next day I got a letter from the lawyer that I should be in court on the 4th of September I was like how would I start this new month with a court case and as well I was also trying to get a loan which I have been paying for and I need got the loan so then I contacted Dr Sakura after I read lots of reviews about him on the internet I had confident in him that he would surly cancel the divorce and also my loan would be credited Dr Sakura just told me that everything would be sorted out within 48 hours I put all my trust in him because Dr Sakura does not believe in Black magic or Voodoo power he believes in Almighty God believe me within 48 hours the divorce that we where suppose to go to court was canceled and as well my loan which I have been trying to get for 3 years was credited it was a wonderful news and as well my lover came and apologize to me and told the lawyer to will all his properties to me and make everything be in my name and made me had his SSN, and ATM pin jusT to prove to me that he wont leave me for any reason am so happy today and please if you need help just contact Dr Sakura on greatsakurasolutionhome@yahoomail.com or cell number +2348018978213.

Friday, September 20, 2013, 9:49 PM

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how i get my ex back


What would i have done if not for kala spell,my name is rachel, I am 27 years old and i have a son. Unfortunately almost a year ago his father broke up with me because of a mistake I made and I just really want him back. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I want our family to be complete again, I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I read online that you helped a girl in this situation and I contact him for help. I grew up with my parents divorced and I don’t want that for my son and I miss my husband so much and just want our family to be whole again I want the love of my life back and I can honestly say that because he is the only man I have ever truly loved with all my heart.So i seek help from Kalalovespell@gmail.com and he responded to me and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting back my husband and i am happy and greatful to him for helping me. Kalalovespell@gmail.com the only through spell caster i have ever known.

Tuesday, October 08, 2013, 6:25 PM

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I’m so happy I found dr marnish who brought my lover back



Just a few words to tell everyone my joy! I’m so glad that dr.marnish@yahoo.com was able to bring my boyfriend back we went out together last week and we eventually made love together. ever Since Dr cast the love spell, my man really changed towards me, that’s amazing. Dr did a great work and after all the crap I’ve read on internet about spellcasters, I’m so happy I found dr marnish.

Wednesday, October 09, 2013, 7:17 AM

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how i get my boyfriend back


My ex-boy dumped me 6 months ago after I accused him of seeing another woman and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refused to have any contact with me.He changed his line,block me from sending him email and facebook.I was so confuse and don't know what to do. So I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimonies of how this powerful spell caster help them to get their ex back. So I contact the spell caster whose name is Dr Shiva and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2days that my ex will return to me, and to my greatest surprise the Second day my ex came knocking at my door and ask me to forgive him.I am so happy that my love is back again. Once again thank you Dr Shiva,you are truly talented and gifted. Email: reunitingexspell@yahoo.com . He is the only answer to your problems.He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing his name for the good work he did for me andpeople are still talking about him on the Internet. REUNITINGEXSPELL@YAHOO.COM


Tuesday, October 15, 2013, 8:13 PM

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i am very happy today

Hello Friend

I have something to share with you!!! There is a great joy in my heart which I want to share with everyone. My name is Doreen. I had misunderstanding with my lover few years ago; which led to our break up and he never wanted to hear my voice again. He saw a beautiful lover more prettier than myself, but as time went on I met Doctor Zaza. He is a great spell caster (medicine man ). I contacted him through his email and explained everything to him. He said that I shouldn't worry because my lover will come back to me on his knees begging for forgiveness. I bought some item that he told me to buy for the preparation of the spell. After everything was prepared he told me that my lover will come to me with 24 hours begging. My greatest joy now is that he actually came back to me and fell on his knees begging for forgiveness, and today we are happy. Do you have any problem with your loved one and Do not know what to do? Well worry no more because Doctor Zaza can provide you with a spell to get him or her back just as he helped me. Contact Doctor Zaza today via email: indiaspellcaster@hotmail.com

Thursday, October 24, 2013, 7:10 AM

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how to restore lost relationship


Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony.My husband breakup with me 2 months ago after (8) years of marriage just because he met another woman in his working place and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web for help, i saw a post on how this spell caster Dr Kasee on this email onimalovespell@gmail.com,on how he have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply and explain my problems to him to his email and he cast a love spell for me which i use to get my husband back from the wicked woman who took him away from me and after 3 days my husband come back to me.I believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr. Kasee. His email: onimalovespell@gmail.com

Saturday, October 26, 2013, 7:41 PM

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hoy my boyfriend come back to me


I was married for five years without any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home lately and not spending time with me any more. and because of this my husband divorce me. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my friend told me about dr.kumar from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him and he cast a spell to bring back my husband and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (boys) i am having a happy family with the help of Dr Kumar of spellcasttemple@gmail.com. Thanks to dr.kumar for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is:(spellcasttemple@gmail.com)tel.+2347051705853

Sunday, October 27, 2013, 5:29 PM

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DR OLORUN BRING BACK MY HUSBAND WITH HIS POWERFUL MAGIC SPELL

I am Precious Levitte, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Olorun for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until ifound(Olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com ) a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 3 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. Olorun released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my fiance is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to Olorun for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. email him on; Olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

Tuesday, November 05, 2013, 12:52 AM

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how i get my ex back


I want to use this opportunity to thank Dr. Shiva for helping me to get my boyfriend back after he left me 4 months ago. I have sent friends and my brothers to beg him for me but he refused and said that its over between us but when I met this Dr. Shiva he told me to relaxed that every thing will be fine and really after 2 days my boyfriend come back to me and beg me to forgive him.Just in case anybody need his help email him at: reunitingexspell@yahoo.com

Friday, November 08, 2013, 4:15 PM

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dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com is actually a genuine spell caster

Christine .I never believe in spells and magic until I
experienced one sometime s ago and it really worked for me.I was in love
with this guy and he is in love with me too for 2years and we making
preparations to get married but to my surprise,his parents didn't want his
hand in the marriage cos of the religion difference.I was about loosing my
man to another lady under the influence of his parents until I met a spell
caster on net that claimed he can help me out.He helped me cast a very
strong spell that helped change his parents mind and i noticed also that my
man love for me has greatly increased.We are happily married now
.People with similar problems can contact the spell caster on
okuntemple@gmail.com

Friday, November 29, 2013, 6:05 PM

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dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com is actually a genuine spell caster

Christine .I never believe in spells and magic until I
experienced one sometime s ago and it really worked for me.I was in love
with this guy and he is in love with me too for 2years and we making
preparations to get married but to my surprise,his parents didn't want his
hand in the marriage cos of the religion difference.I was about loosing my
man to another lady under the influence of his parents until I met a spell
caster on net that claimed he can help me out.He helped me cast a very
strong spell that helped change his parents mind and i noticed also that my
man love for me has greatly increased.We are happily married now
.People with similar problems can contact the spell caster on
okuntemple@gmail.com

Friday, November 29, 2013, 6:05 PM

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Thank you Doctor

After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo. com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS WEBSITE ADDRESS is http://extremewhitelovespell.webs.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

Wednesday, January 15, 2014, 4:40 PM

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Thank you Doctor

After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo. com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS WEBSITE ADDRESS is http://extremewhitelovespell.webs.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

Thursday, January 30, 2014, 9:47 PM

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Thank you Doctor

After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo. com

Monday, February 03, 2014, 6:39 PM

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Thank you Great Ovoko

It's awesome and amazing. My name is Jerry Mike from the United States. Getting my wife back was what i least expected and could ever imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years and we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed completely and turned away from me but i never knew what was going on, and i tried to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused. During my search for a way out, a friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell caster called Great Ovoko who helped him with his situation. I never use to believe in spell casting in my entire life so i tried to give this man a chance because i never thought it will work for me but to my greatest surprise it got me a positive result and i was able to get my wife back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered my wife fell so much in love with me unlike before. This spell casting isn't brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and needed her. Now i am a happy man again and do not know what to do for him and so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone having similar problem to visit Ovokolovespell@gmail. com he will help you because he is so real and his spells is so powerful. Once again thank you Great Ovoko and may your gods reward you for your good deeds.....

Monday, February 03, 2014, 9:24 PM

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A GREAT SPELL CASTER THAT HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX GIRLFRIEND

A GREAT SPELL CASTER (DR. TEBE) THAT HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX GIRL FRIEND BACK TO ME.
Am so happy to testify about a great spell caster that helped me when all hope was lost for me to unite with my ex girl friend that i love so much. Am from CANADA and my name is TUCKER CONRAD, i had a girl friend that love me so much but something terrible happen to our relationship one afternoon when her girl friend that was always trying to get to me was trying to force me to make love to her just because she was been jealous of her friend that i was dating and on the scene my girl friend just walk in and she thought we had something special doing together, i tried to explain things to her that her friend always do this when ever she is not with me and i always refuse her but i never told her because i did not want the both of them to be enemies to each other but she never believed me. She broke up with me and i tried times with out numbers to make her believe me but she never believed me until one day i heard about the GREAT DR. TEBE and i emailed him with his email greattebespelltemple@gmail.com and he replied me so kindly and help me get back my lovely relationship that was already gone for two months. Am so happy and all thanks to the GREAT DR. TEBE that help me with his white love powers. If you have any kind of problem email him now for help with his email greattebespelltemple@gmail.com or you can call him through his private number +2349034883690. His web site address is http://greattebespelltemple.webs.com

Sunday, February 09, 2014, 4:55 AM

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Thank you Great Ovoko

Hello friends, an awesome and amazing testimony about a Great spell caster i really love to share. My name is Jerry Mike from the United States. Getting my wife back is what i least expected and could never imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years and we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed completely and turned away from me and i never knew what was going on, i tried to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused, and i did all my possible best to get her back but it was all in vain and i thought all hope was lost, and during my search for a way out, a friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell caster called Great Ovoko who helped him to solve his problem. I never use to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought it will work but i tried to give this man a chance and to my greatest surprise, he did his work and it yielded a positive result and i was able to get my wife back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my wife fell so much in love with me unlike before. This spell casting isn't brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and needed her, and now i am a happy man again and do not know what to do for this Great spell caster and so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone having similar problem to visit him on Ovokolovespell@gmail. com just tell him your problems and he will help you because he is so real and powerful. Once again thank you Great Ovoko and may your gods always reward you for your good deeds.


Tuesday, February 11, 2014, 4:57 PM

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This Man restored my relationship


I was with a guy for 3 years, he always told me he loved me and that we wouldn't break up because if you love someone you make it work. We could never work out a time when we were both free and just a couple days ago he said we should just be friends. I know he dont me love anymore. When we were dating he said to everyone that I was his girlfriend and introduced me, told his friends he really liked me and told me he loved me, I wanted to be with him again but I never knew what to do. I tried for a long time with other spell casters to get him back but dr.marnish@yahoo.com was the ONLY spell caster that could do the love spell for me that worked, if you need help call him +15036626930, he will always come to your aid, Obviously dr marnish is the REAL DEAL!
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Wednesday, March 19, 2014, 4:00 AM

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thanks to dr olorun for his powerful love spell

Dr. Olorun Oduduwa I love to be on your testimonial page to spread my happiness. Your hard work and effort is greatly appreciated especially from me. My boy-friend is back home. We are back together. He pick me up from my station today. I haven't saw him in 6 month. I wasted so much time with other spell casters and should have stuck with you originally. You are a truly gifted spell caster and I just wanted to take the time to show how you and tell the world how grateful I am"thanks to Dr. Olorun, contact him if need his help on how to bring back your lost husband or boyfriend to your heart again on; Olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

Tuesday, May 27, 2014, 12:08 PM

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A gayguy who found love

Being attracted to the same sex in countries like USA,UK Canada is really easily as i have heard.There are still people there who don't like people like us but it not as bad as that of Russia cos here we are beaten jailed and sometimes even killed.You can't hold the hand of the one you care about in the public so as to avoid been harassed we can even set a place to me cos if we are caught we face jail time.Here in Russia we gay are prisoner in our own country.I am currently in a relation with my fiance and we had to leave Russia to be together.Before now his parent were against our relationship cos they had no idea he was gay we sneaked around knowing the risks if we were to be caught.When he finally got heart to tell him family the rejected him and asked he stops seeing me or they were going to turn him in and that scared him a lot his father is a very powerful man in Russia and he made it possible for him not to be able to live the country i mean as long as you have money in Russia anything goes.I was lucky they never got to meet me cos if they did i would have not been here right now writing this article that you are all reading.Probably i would have been in jail.Months passed and there was no way we could see each other cos they had him watched to make sure he is never get to meet me and also to know the person the was he was practicing this profane act with as they called it.They stripped him of all his right to the family assets and made him an outcast i could see he was suffering form the text he was sending me they made his life miserable and made him end our relationship.I knew he was confused and did know what to do to get his life back to make his family see him the way they use to.And i knew that his family were never going to accept his life style cos they are so anti gay.If they were to be a fund riser to fight gay practice in Russia his family will be the first to ask that they host it.I love him so much but he was scared of him family and they also had a grip on him.I know most person don't believe in what about to say but still if it wasn't for Mutton Osun a spell caster that i found on the internet i would not have been writing this.It happened maybe by a slim chance or fate that i was a blog were it happened that i read three distinct comment about how he help them with similar problem.I contacted him with an email address that was in the comment.I asked Mutton Osun to cast a spell to make my then boyfriend to make up his mind to run away from Russia with me to be together and also his family as in his father to make it possible for him to leave Russia with me and set a very comfortable life for us were we were going.And i know doing spells with someone you can't even see is outrageous but i promise you he makes you feel more at else when he calls and he really goes through with his promise cos he did with mine he was really helpful to him and kind.And like other people said he doesn't even charge you for what he is doing for you.I had to provide some list of materials that he asked that i get for my spell casting.I preferred that i sent the money down to him cos they were not easy to find and even when i found them it was so expensive but he could get them cheaply.He instructed me on how to make the spell work with great effect.It took 7 seven day and night to see it result.On the seventh night my boyfriend call me to tell me we could finally be together cos his father did agreed to do all i asked mutton osun to make him do i just knew at once it was Mutton Osun spell cos it what i asked for and now me and fiance are the happiest right now we can hold hand now without fear of being harassed or sent to jail for we are in love and we are very comfortable here.His father made sure everything was set before we even got here just like i asked it should be.Am going to also leave Mutton Osun email here just like others have done for contact purpose godsofosunx@rocketmail.com

Tuesday, July 29, 2014, 4:25 PM

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I got to meet a real spell caster face to face contact

Probably all this testimony you read about spell casting online are spam right?And yeah some are spam some think all of them are spam which is totally not bad and i also know some believe spell casting really works but have not been able to find the right one. Well i think i found the right spell caster Metodo. I know he is real not cos he helped me but because i was there in his temple i Have seen him and his temple and i tell you it can't get more really that what am writing now. I know you may want to know why and what lead me to contact a spell caster i am a south African woman here in south African as a matter of fact in Africa having a male child is like the most important thing in a marriage and it turned out that i am married to a very traditional man as in a he believes the male child carry the family name on and on but the females get married and change there name which is true. I were married for six years and i had no male child for him .Maybe friends and family filled his head with a lot of things like i don't have a male child for him and as a result he need to get a divorce and get another wife that can bear him a male child. I always thought the people that filled his head with this ideas where is family and friends the people that i smile and dine with. The very people who ought to have advice him rightly. I never found out if they where involved in wanting to ruin life and my marriage. Not because i could not find out but cost i didn't want to develop hatred for them cos i will always get to see them and it is not really healthy seeing the faces of people you hate. At that time, i mean before i knew my husband got himself a lover i was paranoid about him having a lover cos our lives changed a lot he starting coming home late he wouldn't touch me any more and even he started avoiding me in our home making up excuses to stay all day in his study room doing nothing and telling me his need something off to clear his head. We had fights all the time i brought up the matter if he was see someone else. Maybe he got tired of lying i don't know he finally asked for a divorce. A divorce my family saw him through his university and got him a got job i told myself and now he's asking me for a divorce cos i don't a male child yet for him. He was ready to let go of his three beautiful daughters he asked that i take them along. Maybe he was a real f**l and didn't know what he had and maybe he didn't deserve someone like me but one thing was crystal clear to me i was still in love with him and i wanted a complete family for my kid that and the fact that i raised him from the gutter i didn't care about any of his problem when i married him and i forgot to say my father never approved our marriage but still i jumped into it thinking we are going to have each other forever. Though we are still together now but its cos of the spell i had metodo cast on him to make him see how much he needs me in this life. When i contacted metodo he asked that i get the materials for the spell which i did and delivered the materials to him in person that is to say i came in contact with him. I was to return in to his temple in 7 seven day and within those seven day he gave me a blessed a red candle asking that i command and say whatever i wanted every night within those seven days which i did on the seventh day when i returned to metodo temple he gave a harmless powerful substance with instruction on how to use it. This might seem like fiction or lie or what ever you lucky reads may think but deep down you know it true you just looking for a way not to get involved. I ve got my husband back and my family life couldn't be better thanks to the spell though i don't have a male child for him at least his them lover bore him one. contact him with his email if you want his help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

Saturday, August 16, 2014, 1:32 PM

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won my boyfriend back from my twin sister

Have never believed in the supernatural or talk less of spell or even voodoo.In my head there was nothing on earth that was ever going to get me involve in such thing but life was we know throw s**t at your door and some how the doors opens up and let it strike you.************* My twin sister was having an affair with the my long time boyfriend.I mean i only found out the day he told me was no longer want to be with me that he was in love with my twin sister and he has been cheating on me with her.This was after four year of dating.I lived in pain for a whole year having to see her face every family thanksgiving day with the man i love sitting side by side kissing him and hugging maybe to piss me off or something it only made me hated her more and more desperate to get my boyfriend back.I got him back finally yes i did, but i can fail to say i did not use the normal way Metodo Acamu help me cast a spell to kill their relationship and rekindle ours to how we were before they started her affair.In case you asking asking yourself how possible it is believe me i don't know and won't tell you i understand cos like i said i never in my life thought it would result to me using a spell or something but there is one thing i know is that the spell worked for me and made my love fall in love with me again.There not much i can say to emphasize how the spell worked all i know is that i was asked to get some materials for the spell of which i was to buy and go present the materials myself to Metodo Acamu or send over or send the expenditure to him to get the materials need for the spell.to me it was less expensive to wire th cash to him to get the materials cos they are the expert in it.But i know in the end METODO ACAMU pulled through with the spell and made me whole again.Like honestly my main purpose for writing this was to let those out there know that other comment about METODO on the internet is really cos here i am tell you my story it can get anymore real than it is already.I can never forgive my twin sister even though i have got my love back.Use this email address as METODO ACAMU contact metodoacamufortress@yahoo.com

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