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Does anyone have the problem that they are over weight but don't have the chest to match?? I feel jipped lol.. I'm fat and don't have a big chest... I hope i'm not alone

Tue. Apr 11, 3:57pm

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Amen sister. No problems with a big chest here! I think my belly caught up to my chest!
Now that I'm losing, my chest (what liittle there is!) is going fast, too! Grrr... No fair....

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 4:05 PM

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I have the same problem. The more I lose the more chest I lose. It feels defeating sometimes. I want to be fit and keep the boobs!

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 5:13 PM

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thats the same with me!!! now that im gonna lose the weight, its gonne be worse! i know how you feel!

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 5:37 PM

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Man - I adore my flat chest! When I'm a good weight my body looks so tight and athletic - I have to say I rather like it. Plus it's easier to find great bras and at 33 they're still perky as all get out.

Don't know if you meant it that way - but that was darn motivating! Here's to getting the rest of my body to match my chest!

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 5:48 PM

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Well, shoooooooooot....

I have to say that I feel like I'm at a particular disadvantage because as I lose, my chest deflates (gotta get to the gym and do some strength training so they don't look flabby), but I have a BIG OL' BUTT! So my chest gets smaller, my stomach gets flatter, and my hips shrink the TEENSIEST bit, making me look more like a freak of nature than before! LOL
Of course, my fiance is all about it, he says I have a genetically superior body because of it. I guess, the eye of the beholder, right?
When I'm sitting, people think I'm skinny. Then I get up, and people go
"Holy SH--!" (One woman LITERALLY did that!)
Here's a good one:
A male friend of mine listened to me complain about my flat chest. He then asked me if I wanted to have kids. Thinking he was going to say I'd probably get boobs then, I said yes.
He said," Oh, man! I feel sorry for your kids! They're going to starve!"
LOL

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 7:56 PM

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Thats awful! The kids won't starve, don't worry. They fill up and out as the pregnany goes on. Once you stop breastfeeding they usually deflate again though. =(

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 8:32 PM

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To the 7:56pm poster.. wow you encounter some weird ppl.. lol who says things like commenting on someone's hips or saying something like your kids are going to starve.. lol they need the CUT

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 8:47 PM

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Be glad they are small, when you are 60 they won't hang down to your knees!

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 9:31 PM

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Be proud of what you have! Or don't have for that matter. I am small chested. I'm that way no matter what I weigh. My mom and sister both got a big set but oh well! I can wear cute tops with no bra! I thing that's the best, a nice tank top or cami - I just throw it on and go - no worries! I also don't have backaches, no trouble finding bras that fit. I can run and not worry about painful jiggling or bouncing. And it's true - you won't be sagging when you're old!

A chest isn't everything - work what you do have! Show of your legs or your sexy back! Be proud of you! I puffy heart my small chest - it has its bonuses too!

Tuesday, April 11, 2006, 11:01 PM

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Haha, my little sister is just like the last poster, and my mom and I have boobs! I agree with her! As skinny as I could ever get, I will never be able to wear the tank tops with the shelf bra built in, or any skinny-strapped shirts, because I need a BRA underneath, and strapless are not going to cut it! Bikinis are hard to find, and even harder, button-down shirts!! They just don't make them cut for big boobs - there's always a gaping hole between the buttons where the boobs are. If I bought a shirt to fit the boobs, it'd be too big everywhere else, shoulders, everywhere. Agh!

If I had boobs that were too small, I'd buy some really hot push-up padded bras and flaunt it! And live in little skinny-strapped tank tops! Have you ever seen an attractive DD bra? If so, let me know! LOL!!

Wednesday, April 12, 2006, 10:12 AM

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I love my small bust, after having a kid they are now a perfect B cup. A perfect handful as my husband says. I find that even though I am losing I'm not losing there.

Wednesday, April 12, 2006, 7:33 PM

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yeah, I've lost 3 dress sizes, and only gone from a double D to a d. Personally, I won't go smaller than a C- if I get to a B it's time to put some wieght back on. (But I think curvy is sexier than athletic looking- to each their own...)

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 12:06 AM

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I don't have that problem...

In fact I have a funny story from today.....
Wish I did - they get in the way of my dancing!!!

My daughter watched our dance class tonight and made the following comment afterward.....

"Mom - everyone in your class - the boobs were jiggling when you danced it was funny. But yours were the biggest - I think because yours have had longer to grow since everyone else is only 17!!!" (I'm 31)

Gotta love kids!!!!

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 12:23 AM

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I think its great that everyone feels welcome to post, but really posting about your large breasts in a post for flat chested women isnt always the best idea.

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 12:55 AM

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I'm almost 50 and soooo glad I'm small chested. No hanging boobs here. Have women half my age and theirs sag way down, and these ladies are thin.

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 2:31 AM

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Well....I didn't think we needed a special thread to talk about large boobs since boobs were already being discussed here. Excuse me!

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 1:37 PM

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on subject -you're not alone...

i, too, am heavy and have no boobs. it is discouraging that every where else grows when i gain weight, but not my chest...the push up bras are a really helpful temporary solution, but not a cure. they are really pretty, too. i shop at victoria's secret for them, and the staff is always very helpful with helping me achieve the look i'm going for. good luck (and from what i've read, be careful what you wish for, huh?)!

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 2:17 PM

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I don't its so much that we don't like our small chests... its that if we are heavier its just even worse because usually heavier chicks have the cleavage and they have that going for them.. they don't have to be thin for that.. but I know me.. I'm not like board flat but it does make it worse knowing that the 2 things people usually want are breats so an awesome body.. and having neither can sometimes get you down!!

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 3:37 PM

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lol there is tons of threads for big chested women!! I'm so glad to see someone started a flat club! I'm F and F and I'm gonna be thin and porportional soon enough!! Thanks for starting this thread!!!

Thursday, April 13, 2006, 5:37 PM

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Thank goodness for this thread!! I actually thought I was alone in this one!!!!!!

Saturday, April 15, 2006, 11:43 PM

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Talking about no chest.
I tried on a dress that was kind of snug last summer. It's got little spaghetti straps.

Well, now, it's not only not snug, but I look ridiculous because it has boning in the chest AND I have no boobs !!! I do have some "chicken cutlet" silicone fake boobs, so I'm tempted to wear that with the dress... In the meantime, i'm thinking I may have to skip the dress entirely, even though I want to wear it for Easter-- I think it would look worse if it's not been taken in to fit properly!

Sunday, April 16, 2006, 12:00 AM

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Exactly!

Yeah, I want to lose weight, but I don't want to lose what little I have! I get so upset about it. Especially when I see the skinniest girls with a big chest, I'm like "WHAT THE HECK!" LOL

Tuesday, November 20, 2007, 9:52 AM

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You girls are lucky! You get to walk around the house with no bra on!!! And maybe out of the house? The only time I don't wear a bra is when I shower. Plus, all guys don't just like the boobs. Some are butt men, some are leg men...So, be happy with whatever qualities you were blessed with.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007, 10:13 AM

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Yeah this is one of those issues that just makes me feel so ugly, I'm over-weight, and I have no boobs or butt which bassically makes me feel like a guy. It also really sucks because my other heavier friend has nice curves while I have nothing. It is really discouraging, I don't care how hard big boobs are, I feel like no guy will even take another glance at me because I've got nothing to give...

Friday, June 27, 2008, 1:48 AM

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Fat and Flat?

That's me. When I was young, oler women told me I would get boobs when I was older. Others said, "you need to gain a little weight." Well, I am double the weight I was whenI got married and I am older and still nothing. I can't even find a bra. I need a 42 A or a 44A.

Tuesday, July 08, 2008, 10:58 PM

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I wish mine would get smaller. Well they've already gone down from 54DDD to 46DD. But I want them to go down even more. Like 38C. Glad I'm not the only woman who doesn't want big boobs. Before I ever got pregnant I was 38C. After the baby they got huge and never got smaller again. Then when I started gaining weight, they kept growing too. sigh...........

Wednesday, July 09, 2008, 1:05 AM

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Fat and flat

I have never had boobs. Never, except when nursing my two children. I have some freak kind of condition where I don't have any fat at all from the waist up and tons of fat cells from the hips down. I am no longer really fat, but I cannot go so far as to match my top, on the bottom, because I'd look like a eating disorder victim. A bonus for me? I had nothing to lose on top, so losing on bottom was okay for me. I will be glad if trends go back to the days of the Roaring 20s or the 60s, with Twiggy. Boobs were out, then! If that happens, we are in!

Wednesday, July 09, 2008, 11:00 AM

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Oh gosh I know what you mean. I'm a 36A and my tummy is bigger. Its horrible. It makes me feel so self conscious. I just wanna be thinner so my boobs could stand out a little more.

Thursday, July 17, 2008, 12:33 PM

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Thank God for this thread! It's nice to know im not the only women out there in this position. Im a size 10 and am a 34A... my mum's a 36D and i simply can't understand it! Why am i flat as a board? She has the voluptious figure complete with the boobs.. and i just got the voluptiousness. Size 10 sounds relatively thin, but my thighs are the size of austrailia and i have more stretch marks than a woman whos given birth to 10 sets of triplets! I wish men were attracted to a washboard..:(

Tuesday, March 10, 2009, 3:45 PM

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I'm part of the club, too. And, distressingly, all my fears were realised: as I lost weight (60 lbs), so too did I lose cup sizes (2 of 'em). The only major draw of weight-loss is that my stomach has finally starting losing more than my boobs, and the overall effect is that I'm looking a little more balanced these days. I'm hoping the trend continues, b/c I've got a somewhat sporty look now. It'd be great to rock a bod like Wonder Woman's, but I'm pretty comfortable with having my itty bitty boobs, so long as they continue to protrude past my abdomen.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009, 7:15 AM

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Hey, I have huge boops (34 E/F) and they don't go down easily even when loosing weight. On top of it they bounce around when exercising because no gym bra ever manages to hold them in place. Sometimes they hinder exercise. I say, BE BLESSED! I could really do with 34B!! :)

Wednesday, March 11, 2009, 9:45 AM

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Yeah, I'm overweight and have no boobs at all. I don't even need a bra. But the problem is when I do get bras, that it's hard to find one that fits. I have a big rib cage, so I need long straps to fit all the way around, but then the pads are too big, lol.

And I also don't have anything else worth flaunting to guys, so I'm really self-conscious, especially because I'm 5' 7" and have big hands and feet (not just long, but wide, I have the biggest hands of any girls I've ever known or seen). The only possibly plus is that it's easier to play the piano, being able to reach far, haha.

Sunday, June 21, 2009, 8:26 PM

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Well now!!

I'm one of the rarest guys you'll ever meet... There's nothing I like more than a nice round bottom with a nice thick set of hips and thighs to go with it... And, for ME, there's nothing better than a lil set of boobies above it all...

I am SO not one of those guys that likes big boobs... Unless the rest of the body goes with them... But I DO like a big body with little boobs...

So ladies that fit this category, there is at least ONE guy out here that'll take ya with yer big body and little chest... We're not all big boobs on little anorexic model frames... Ew...

40A/B-34-44... YUMMY stats to me...

Tuesday, January 05, 2010, 11:35 AM

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Pfft :(

Even if some of you ladies are "fat and flat" I bet that at least you have relatively normal looking breasts. Im 5ft tall, 200lbs, with like 38a sized boobs. And thats not even the worst part! Like the areola part of my boob is huge!! it takes up half my boob and i dont have enough fat under the nipple to support it, so my boobs just sag and almost curl, its disgusting. Im only an a/b cup and my boobs sag. I thought "perkiness" was supposed to be a perk of having small boobs. Well not for me. My boobs are deformed and I'm ugly. Also my boobs used to be a lot bigger than they are now, in the past 5 years they have shrunk almost in half. I'm so depressed about it that in the past year I've gained 35 lbs to try to get some boob fat back and my boobs have only gotten even smaller. And now I'm afratid to lose the weight because they will probably get even smaller. I can't stand this being ugly, fat, and practically flat chested. What the hell. What did I do to deserve this?

Tuesday, March 16, 2010, 10:35 AM

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: (

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. Life is hard enough without having to deal with physical issues. No words can soothe when you feel like you're the only person in the world with your problem(s). I totally understand! Every single female in my family has "normal" to very large breasts and are average body sized women. Me, on the other hand, I am very large bodied (240+ pounds) and have very small breasts (B cup). I have never met or seen another woman in my town with that same "problem". I am 37 yrs old with 2 teenage kids. My breasts never got bigger during pregnancy. I couldn't even produce milk for them - had to depend on formula. I have more fat on my sides below my arm pits than I do in my breasts. When I put on a bra, I always try to pull that fat inwards to make my breasts larger but it never stays : ( I was told many years ago that there was a special bra out there made for women in our situation that pulls that area of fat inwards and after time wearing the bra, would make the fat permanent in the breast area. I sure wish I could remember the name of the manufacturer!!! My 15 yr old daughter is a 36D and she HATES her boobs. She always tells me she wishes she were small chested like me. But I wish I were big breasted like she is. Especially since I am a large woman anyways. I would look better proportioned. We just have to be thankful for the things we do have and be less judgmental of ourselves. Unless you are rich and can afford implants, there is nothing you can do about it. So just focus on the things you do have that you are proud of. Good luck to you all out there!

Monday, September 06, 2010, 9:33 AM

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it's not a big (sorry:)) deal!!

I am a guy. With time, as I grew older my taste for women changed and I started to like more and more
the plus size women. Don't know why, it just is. Even though I had always been dating slender ones before.
I researched into this preference of mine and read that most guys who don't mind or prefer big women do it for the large breasts and or "rear".
And women state that too!

However as I checked with myself, I realized that, sure those curves are nice, but it wasn't that at all. In fact I so often caught my eyes liking and stopping on round women with very small chest, almost flat and let's face it, the average american woman is mostly flat butted (not like some Mediterranean or south american or middle Easter or afro american ones).
So I realized that I found very cute their smallish chest, often a little empty, like cute appendages but still very lovely and feminine.
No; what attracted me to them, was their sunny face, will to smile, larger presence that commands respect and awe in me, the overall rotundity, the larger thighs, the strong calves and my favorite fetish number 2: the big belly!
Doesn't that plump belly replace and surpass the large bosom? Oh yes! And it's so close to the core of the femininity. The other fetish I have is a love for their feet but this has nothing to do here.

So then I found online a few (yes few..) other guys who shared that liking for the plus size women with very round bellies, hips, thighs and smallish to flat chests; it's a very cute piece of art the proportion you have!
Much more dynamic and interesting than the boring, slender and ultra-balanced
that everyone is coveting because of the media.
so please do not suffer too much for that. What you see as missing, can be a treasure for some sensible guys.

Sunday, September 26, 2010, 7:07 PM

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it's not a big (sorry:)) deal!!

I am a guy. With time, as I grew older my taste for women changed and I started to like more and more
the plus size women. Don't know why, it just is. Even though I had always been dating slender ones before.
I researched into this preference of mine and read that most guys who don't mind or prefer big women do it for the large breasts and or "rear".
And women state that too!

However as I checked with myself, I realized that, sure those curves are nice, but it wasn't that at all. In fact I so often caught my eyes liking and stopping on round women with very small chest, almost flat and let's face it, the average american woman is mostly flat butted (not like some Mediterranean or south american or middle Easter or afro american ones).
So I realized that I found very cute their smallish chest, often a little empty, like cute appendages but still very lovely and feminine.
No; what attracted me to them, was their sunny face, will to smile, larger presence that commands respect and awe in me, the overall rotundity, the larger thighs, the strong calves and my favorite fetish number 2: the big belly!
Doesn't that plump belly replace and surpass the large bosom? Oh yes! And it's so close to the core of the femininity. The other fetish I have is a love for their feet but this has nothing to do here.

So then I found online a few (yes few..) other guys who shared that liking for the plus size women with very round bellies, hips, thighs and smallish to flat chests; it's a very cute piece of art the proportion you have!
Much more dynamic and interesting than the boring, slender and ultra-balanced
that everyone is coveting because of the media.
so please do not suffer too much for that. What you see as missing, can be a treasure for some sensible guys.

Sunday, September 26, 2010, 7:07 PM

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no

it's not the end of the world. Big areaolas are immensely sexy. Inf act the areola and the nipples are the only part that matters of a breast. I love them.

Sunday, September 26, 2010, 7:09 PM

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yes

count me on it. I a feel the same. That's how I got here, looking for photos of women like that

Sunday, September 26, 2010, 7:11 PM

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I have been attracted to washboards, stretch marks and cellulite. You really think guys are all the same and they all just watch tv to tell them what it's ok to like?
I like reality, truth, life, shadows, details, textures, time on a body, character, differences, things to explore.
Otherwise I could by me an inflatable doll with all the attributes.

Sunday, September 26, 2010, 7:14 PM

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did your hubby ever complain?

Sunday, September 26, 2010, 7:16 PM

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