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my date is too aggressive

Dating question....

The guy I am seeing is amazing, personality and looks, he's 33 and I am 25.

We'll go out for drinks and talk and then he'll walk me to my car and start kissing me and then starts saying things like "lets get out of here....take me to your place....I want to give you a back rub..." But it doesn't stop even after telling him that I know his tricks and he's "never gonna get it" like the en vougue song!

I guess my question is do I keep putting myself in this situation cause he's so hot, and I like the attention or stop wasting my time? I was thinking maybe I 'll just see how long he will stick around for.

Fri. Aug 18, 10:48am

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Well, what DO you want from your relationship with this guy?
If you don't know, he isn't going to psychically figure it out. If you want to be friends but not lovers, you are going to have to say so.

Friday, August 18, 2006, 10:52 AM

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hanging around him would appear to me to be encouraging his advances, teasing him, or leading him on. it does not seem that your message is getting across, but if you discontinue seeing him, maybe it will. be careful!

Friday, August 18, 2006, 10:53 AM

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thank you your so right!

Friday, August 18, 2006, 10:53 AM

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I say ditch him... it seems kind of obvious to me that he's not going to change his style and no matter how hot he is... that would just get on my nerves... besides... instead of wasting time with him you should be looking for someone worthy of your time and attention... one who isn't obnoxious!

Friday, August 18, 2006, 10:54 AM

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You know what he wants, and if it's not what you want...go find someone who wants what you want!

Friday, August 18, 2006, 10:58 AM

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Life is short and youth is even shorter. I say figure out what you want in a partner, see if he fits the bill, and then march on or dump him.

Friday, August 18, 2006, 11:08 AM

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If he can't take "no" for an answer - that's A) disrespectful and B) potentially dangerous.

Friday, August 18, 2006, 12:34 PM

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Is this a real post? OP, how old are you?

Friday, August 18, 2006, 12:35 PM

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read the opening post. it says she is 25.

Friday, August 18, 2006, 12:36 PM

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Question for the OP: Are you worried that if you state clearly and unequivocally that you will not sleep with him until "x" time, that he'll go away? He seems like he wants one thing only rather you as a person. If he wants you as a person, then he would have backed-off as much as he would have wanted you to say yes.

He may be hot, but there are lots of hot guys out there and hot guys around whom you can be yourself and be respected for yourself.

Friday, August 18, 2006, 2:51 PM

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