What is going on?!

Ok, I'm so upset. Tonight I got turned down by a man at a party because I was" too big". I finally got down to 108 pounds...and I am being called too big??? I'm upset because something is horribly wrong if people are now viewing 108 as big....but I'm even more upset that it affected me. I'm sitting here contemplating ways to get smaller and cursing my belly which will never be flat....just because of this idiotic man. I just need some other people to share my rage.

Fri. Oct 7, 11:49pm

He's got a problem that can't be fixed. Don't waste your time even thinking about the loser. If you were 25 pounds thinner, you would still be too heavy for him.

Curves are feminine. Long live curves!

Saturday, October 08, 2005, 2:13 AM

Really?

THis is the reason? He said I don't want to go out with you because your'e 108lbs? How did you get into a conversation about your weight? Please tell us more. This sounds crazy!

Saturday, October 08, 2005, 5:57 AM

I don't care how good looking, successful or charming this guy is or thinks he is. He's a jerk. You don't need to be with people like that. There are lots of men who appreciate a woman for what she is. For the curves she has and the wrinkles she will have. Be patient. He will come along. And it will be worth it.

Saturday, October 08, 2005, 6:52 AM

Not into women

Chances are he's not into women, if he thinks you're too big. He's into little girls. B/c only little girls weigh less than 100lbs. So take it as a good sign, you just stayed away from a real creep.

Saturday, October 08, 2005, 7:23 AM

He needs someone small, a tiny girl to make his *%$#### look bigger!!! It's his own insecurity!!!!!

Saturday, October 08, 2005, 8:15 AM

That's weird...

I mean, what did he say exactly? I'm having trouble understanding how this occured...

You: Hello
Him: Hi. I'd date you, but you're too fat for me.
You: But I only weight 108 lbs!
Him: Sorry, that's just how it is. Come back when you weight 88 lbs. I only date anexorics.

Saturday, October 08, 2005, 11:11 AM

watch for the 1-2 punch

Some guys get intimidated by women and find that the only way to get any is to "knock her down a couple of pegs" so they do the 1-2 punch. "You're too fat/dumb/ugly." then "Give me your number" The theory is that if her self-esteem is low, there is a positive rebound effect that makes her want the guy more and puts her in the position of being more placating and easier to control.

Sunday, October 09, 2005, 11:39 AM

I to am confused how this comment came about. How did he say it? Did he really say too big or is that what you heard? 108 pounds is pretty tiny even if you are 5' so I can't imagine any straight man saying something like that. Maybe you just weren't his type. Either way you know your not big and there are plenty of other men out there.

Monday, October 10, 2005, 8:52 AM

i dont know what to say 108 that is tiny! exactly what did he say and how did it happen? dont let him discourage you! i too think he has major problems that cant be fixed!

Monday, October 10, 2005, 9:59 PM

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