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Most men dont want ultra thin women like nicole ritchie or Lindsay Lohan. They find women more desirable like Jessica Simpson and Carmen Electra, I personally think as a guy, I like a little meat on my woman, if you know what I mean.

Wed. Dec 13, 3:47pm

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oh lordy, jessica simpson and carmen electrka have "meat"?? their bodies still seem like they'd be hard to obtain...

Wednesday, December 13, 2006, 4:03 PM

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I have to agree. When I was seriously underweight, I got a lot of criticism from other women. But men didn't like it either. In fact, one guy asked my boyfriend "I don't understand why anyone would want to f**k her, she's like a toothpick."

Now that I'm a bit heavier (I consider myself 5lb overweight) men seem to think I'm way more attractive. My partner thinks my (slightly bulging) stomach is sexy. I want to lose the 5lb for me though, not for his approval. I'm just more comfortable at that weight.

Wednesday, December 13, 2006, 4:14 PM

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Um, sorry, but all those examples you listed are telling me is, "men don't want ultra-thin woman! They want ultra-thin women with big tits!" And that wasn't exactly a secret.

Wednesday, December 13, 2006, 4:31 PM

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Yeah; besides, women don't want guys with awesome bodies, they want guys with awesome bodies, a full head of hair on their head, and no hair on their backs or other places where it shouldn't be! Oh, and a big ***!

Wednesday, December 13, 2006, 5:13 PM

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i don't want a man with an awesome body! i want a man with an awesome paycheck and an awesome personality!

Wednesday, December 13, 2006, 5:15 PM

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I thought this was going to be a list of Christmas gift ideas...
All I've gotten my husband so far is the new Pirates dvd. Any other suggestions? Are electric razors way better than regular shavers?

what do most men want - for Christmas??

Wednesday, December 13, 2006, 5:24 PM

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RE: 5:15's comment -- I have just recieved notice from the guy I've been dating that he has decided to woo me towards marriage. He knows I wasn't thinking about that, but he thinks he can get me to be inspired in that direction.

Now, what does he find attractive about me? Well, he just told me to put some weight back on, so apparently it's not my body. I'm past baby-making age, so it's not kids. Nooooo.... He's very upfront about my awesome paycheck!

I'm kinda conflicted about this. On the one hand, wooohooo! I have a paycheck awesome enough that it makes me attractive!! On the other hand -- Good God, what kind of a thing is that to see in another person? How would others feel about being the object of paycheck-lust?

Wednesday, December 13, 2006, 9:58 PM

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9.58, I hear you! I'm not materialistic at all. Flashy cars etc don't interest me. But I'm very focused on providing for my future, living comfortably, etc. Being financially responsible.

My boyfriend has a whack of debt. Recently, when I considered moving jobs, all his questions were about how much more money I'd be earning, not whether I'd be happier. He sometimes makes me feel like an ATM machine. His background is very different from mine. My family was relatively wealthy, his was less so. We're working towards clearing his debt, and yes, he does pull his weight. But I sometimes think that what originally attracted him to me was my financial stability. It's not a nice thought to entertain.

Thursday, December 14, 2006, 8:18 AM

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