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you are at the pool and you are just tanning, do you mind if guys are checking you out?

Wed. Jun 13, 2:34pm

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well, like it or not, people tend to look at others while at a pool. it doesn't make any sense to be bothered by it but then continue to go there. leering, however, is totally different. and gross.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 2:42 PM

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even though i'm happiily married, it's nice to be noticed. i like it.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 2:45 PM

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People checking me out are out of my control. I don't mind, I actually like the attention. I love to make women jealous, especially if they are with their significant other (I'm a b*itch that way I suppose)! And as long as the guys aren't too creepy, I don't mind them checking me out. What I don't like is when guys feel the need to comment like, "damn girl, you fine" or the ever clever one, "I don't mean to be disrepectful, but you are the most beautiful girl, blah blah blah". Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with a nice compliment, but that phoney stuff is lame.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 2:48 PM

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To the 2:48 poster & anyone else who feels the same, why do you like to make other gals jealous when they are w/their significant other? When a guy is giving me attention w/his woman by his side, I really go out of my way to smile & acknowledge the woman (& not pay any attention to the guy). I want her to know that I'm confident, nice & "on her side". I'm not at all trying to judge you & your feelings but just curious because I've heard that alot of woman feel the same as you, but I don't at all understand it. Guys can be so openly disrespectful to the woman that they are wtih, I guess I don't understand feeding into it.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 3:29 PM

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geez, my self esteem is so low, i can't imagine a guy checking me out at all. once i was walking down the street and a guy yelled from a car "nice a$$" and i thought he was mocking me! anyway, if someone were to look at me if i was "just tanning" i might not mind, but as the other posters say i probably wouldn't like more comments like the "a$$" one.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 3:35 PM

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Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 4:31 PM

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I completely agree with you 3:29. I don't mind being noticed but I'd rather not recieve attention from men who are willing to openly disrespect their significant others. It ranks right up there with the creepy leering men.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 4:36 PM

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I like the attention, and my guy likes the attention I get, he walks around with his chest puffed out like mister rooster, that in itself is worth it !!!

Wednesday, June 13, 2007, 4:45 PM

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I’m a 25 year old male. I’ve never dated at all for two reasons. First, I’m a shy person so I’m not good in socializing with women. Second, I’m very busy at this point of my life as I just graduated from college and am trying to get settled with me life. Also, I went to an all-boys high school, so there were no girls in my life at that time. testking 642-373 With that said, whenever I’m outside, it seems like women want attention. A women wearing skimpy clothes would stand or sit across from me on the subway and constantly turn her head to check up and see if I’m looking at her. Same thing happens at a restaurant. I go out to eat and some woman at the next table wearing a skimpy shirt was checking to see if I was looking at her. I could also be walking down the street and I pass by a woman and she casually glances at me. testking 1Y0-259 Now, my question is: what do women want from me? Are they looking for me to ask them out, talk to them, or do they just want attention and be looked at? Or is it that I’m so weird that they just look at me because I look funny. Whenever there are moments when I talk to a girl, whether it be at a party, at school, testking 000-210 or at a social event, they seem kind of shy with me. Is it because I’m shy? Are they really interested in me, but my shyness intimidates them?

Monday, August 31, 2009, 5:18 AM

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depends who's looking ;-) wouldn't say no to Keanu checking me out!

Monday, August 31, 2009, 8:07 AM

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