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Why do guys on the first date Shove their tongues down a girl's throat? Who told them that was sexy? Or who told them that was the thing to do? I've had this happen to me on a first date twice, once by a guy who was in his early 20s and a guy much older (50's). I knew both of them (worked with one, attended class with another) before going out with them... perhaps this had something to do with it?? I nearly gaged, ugh.

Wed. Jul 11, 3:24pm

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I think they're just both bad kissers! I think that's rather useful information to have after a first date!!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 3:29 PM

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ROTFL this has happened to me too - the first time when i was 15, i pushed the guy back and gasped!! i felt embarassed for gasping, but geesh. i've learned to pull back a little at the first lip lock to avoid the tongue action.

Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 3:29 PM

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I have never kissed a guy on a real first date. When first meeting a guy, sure, but that usually ends in a one-night stand. If a guy is that forward, it means that he knows what he wants, and that is to sleep with you, otherwise he would hold off. These two guys wanted some booty and that was their goal. Sorry :(

Liek Greg Bahrent says, "He's just not that into you".

Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 4:28 PM

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i'm 21 and never been on a date therefore i can' t say i've been through that experience. Unfortunately.

Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 4:37 PM

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wow im 21 too and never been on a date before either whoooo lol

well if you count having a date to prom, yes then, but i asked him and it wasnt like he was interested in my anyway =P

Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 8:41 PM

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Why haven't you two had dates? Do you consider yourselves too young? Or did nobody ever ask you?

Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 10:31 PM

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4:28-I don't agree that a man that kisses you on the first date is only into getting some booty (sure some of the time-okay, a LOT of the time! but definitely not always!)-my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, have been living together for more than a year and a half, and we kissed the first night we met.

and he went home after that. we didn't sleep together till about a month and a half later!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 10:59 PM

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to the 10:31 poster....

In response to your question:

I haven't had a date because no one has ever asked me. I don't know why, but i can only imagine.

Wait....i was asked on a date. About 4 times by the same guy. I just never ended up happening. He also ended up breaking my heart. He taold me he liked me, and we talked and saw each other at work for about a year before he asked me for the first time. Then his dad passed away and we postponed it, That one never happened either. Then he quit, but we kept in touch. He asked me out again, and then couldn't make it because he went out of town. Here i was thinking the third time is a charm. Riiiiiight, Then he asked a fourth time, and then never showed up, and turned off his phone so i couldn't contact him. It hurt. Alot. I thought he genuinely liked me. Ok....enough of that. No real dates :(

Thursday, July 12, 2007, 8:56 AM

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Hey, don't feel bad, girls! I'm 20 and I've never been on a date either. And I consider myself a normal, attractive girl. I've had a couple relationships that were quite casual, though, and they never really took me out. Going out on dates is unfortunately becoming a thing of the past. I met both guys just by hanging out with friends and it developed without any formal dating. So just because you aren't getting asked out doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you! I would say most girls don't get asked out, at least not on a regular basis.

Thursday, July 12, 2007, 11:06 AM

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remember the episode of "sex in the city" when charlotte goes on a great date just to have the guy LICK her MOUTH when he kissed her goodnoght? that was hilarious. that was just like my first kiss. i do not kiss any date at all these days until i've gotten to know him a bit more. peoples' mouths are germ infested and sometimes i'm just too grossed out.

Thursday, July 12, 2007, 11:11 AM

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