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Get Freaky with it

Watch porn with him.
Try a different location or a different position.
Tell him to talk dirty to you. (women are audial creatures, hearing things triggers something in our libido that turns us on)
Read excerpts from erotic books to eachother.
Buy some lingerie - better yet, do what i did for my husband on my honeymoon. Buy a body stocking and have him tear it off of you (my husband loved loved LOVED it!)
take a shower together
visit an adult/erotic store together
go to a strip club with him
send him dirty text messages or write him a dirty note and leave it in his wallet or somewhere he'll find it later, and make good on what you wrote.

to me 50% of sex is mental. I've been married for 5 years, but with my husband for 7, and there are times when your sex life gets too mechanical, but you've got to reach into your bag of tricks and spice it up.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 12:36 PM

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Tell him to "get you in the mood"! I find that sometimes I may not even be thinking about sex or interested in it but if my bf cuddles up to me and kisses me gently and we're being close in general . . .then voila! I'm now in the mood-he better be too! haha!

Two or three times a week is pretty good-I wish I was getting that much sex. (I'm a woman). Your husband is lucky! I'm lucky if my bf puts out more than once a week!

I agree with trying new things, or even fantasize on your own, when he isn't home, so that when he gets home you are already halfway there. Send him an email at work or a text message on his phone letting him know you are thinking about him, and thinking about what you want to do to him when he gets home. That'll get him in the mood and it'll get you going too. Set up a "date night" at least once a week when you and your husband get to do something special-even if it is at home w/ the kids. Make dinner together, take a bubble bath together, go for a walk w/ the whole family and hold hands w/ your man. In general, add more affection with each other-they say couples who touch more often feel closer to each other and in turn makes them want to have sex more often. Touch away!!

Hope you guys work it out okay!

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 12:46 PM

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And you're asking us for advice? We should be coming to you! I agree with one of the posters who said that it's half mental. Maybe if you change your hairstyle or buy and wear something that makes you feel sexy, your mood will change. Also, be honest with your husband, let him know how you're feeling, and let him know that you're gonna need a little more from him to get you in the mood.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 1:00 PM

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Buy yourself some super sexy lingerie. Wear it to work. Just thinking of how sexy the lingerie you are waering is so sexy t will make ou want to run home, rip off your cltohes and show your hubby.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 1:10 PM

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remote control stimulator

My husband bought a little gadget a few weeks back for our trip to Vegas. it's a clitoral stimulator and it is remote controlled by him. He begged me to use it (I didnt want to at first, because i hate not being in control), and I finally agreed. so we're on the plane, and I'm about to doze off, and the next thing you know...i get this very lite vibration down there, and not knowing when he was gonna set it off made it even more exciting. we got to our hotel room and it was on! I havent been turned on like that since I was a teenager.

Thursday, August 16, 2007, 1:14 PM

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