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Would anyone be bothered if their boyfriend/spouse was going to a "gentleman's club" with his friends for a bachelor party? Am I just being too jealous by caring at all?

Fri. Sep 28, 4:14pm

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i think many guys do the same thing...for some it's probably what they think they're supposed to do. although i'm sure many don't have to try hard to enjoy themselves. from what i hear (from my girlfrineds who dance at these places), it's mostly the friends trying to embarras the soon-to-be-groom than trying to get with any girls themselves. i would think differently if it was just for a typical friday night out, but otherwise i'd be fine with it.

Friday, September 28, 2007, 4:20 PM

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it would not bother me at all we live in nyc and you cant touch the strippers here its a total waste of money nothing will happen. let him have fun with the guys

Friday, September 28, 2007, 4:20 PM

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I'd be jealous too. I think it's natural. We know our men look at other women and that's fine. Women oogle men too. However, my issue is that they are usually places where it is okay and expected for the women there to give the men lapdances, touch them, and rub all over them. That to me is NOT cool. I told my bf that I have no problem with him going to places like that with friends (it's not really his thing though) but if he goes and a woman touches him, or he touches her . . .he should know that that means it's okay for me to go somewhere and have a guy rub his crotch all over me too. hehe. That's not my bag either but I know the thought of another guy going anywhere near me wigs him out so much that even if he was seriously tempted to go along with the guys and let some stripper grind herself all over him, I know he's not going to. I trust him completely and he's never even been to a strip club but this came up in conversation once about a friend's bachelor party so I was honest about my feelings.

My attitude is look all you want-completely natural. But touching is off limits!!!
If you trust your man, it won't be a problem, but it is natural to be a little jealous I think. Women are territorial!

Friday, September 28, 2007, 4:23 PM

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I live in NYC too and run into strippers at my local pizza joint (it's next door to their club) ... apparently it depends on the club and how strictly they follow the rules in the Champagne Room (remember, 4 girls were arrested for prostitution at Scores a few months ago, supposedly a "decent" place as far as these things go). If your husband's friends aren't the types to blow $300-$1000 for a VIP room, there isn't even a risk of anything more questionable than a lapdance happening.

Friday, September 28, 2007, 4:29 PM

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what area do you live?

Friday, September 28, 2007, 4:30 PM

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